Few days ago, around midnight, my kids craved for roti tisu. So, off we went to the mamak restaurant.
Since it is way past midnight, I willed myself not to eat but just sitting there waiting for the kids to wallop the roti tisu. My eyes darted around the mamak restaurant (this one with air-con wan) and saw a father with his son. The father is a bit weird ‘cos he is balding but kept his hair rather longish and the part near his ears seem to be longer. He seems so busy answering call after call. Oh ya, got one long fingernail, typical China-man.
The son pulak – hair blondish, small size, wear a singlet, revealing his bony body, on his wrist he wore a leather strap with metal studs. His belt oso the same style, metal studs. And on his neck, dangle a huge chain. Thank God he did not wear a fashionable cross or else sure kena my curse. Jeans – blue and torn. Boots – huge one.
My reaction was – wah…..this father so sporting, allowing his son to wear like that and they seems to have a lot to talk. So gentle somemore, the father. He wasn’t eating but the son was eating nasi kandar. I got all maternal and fuzzy over them ‘cos hey, I was also sitting there waiting for the kids to eat mah.
So, I am sort of bonded with another parent. But ALAMAK!!!!! after a few minutes, I realised that this cannot be a father and son pair. Things started to get weird when the hands started flailing when the young guy started talking. (he was eating earlier so no time do that) And the papa, oh shit, he is no longer a papa but looks like bapak ayam (pimp).
I was thankful ‘cos my older sons had their back against them. Otherwise, how to explain?
After the young guy finished his food, both went to the cashier and without doubt, they were definitely NOT NORMAL. The old guy was standing soooooo close to the young one. Skin to skin contact.
Now, wait a minute. It is none of my business what they are. But it is certainly my business to wonder what is becoming of us?
Few weeks back, I had observed that there are many young men who are acting effeminate whereby, they will be lemah-lembut. They look normal but their actions aren’t.
So, I asked ‘someone’ why males can be so girlish. I asked if it was a defective genes and whether they can go for hormone treatment. The knowledgeable guy told me that this is due to psychological problem whereby the boys must have been influenced by the dominant mother at home. He explain in great detail that sometimes, some homes have mothers who are of the dominant trait. This is from his experience in working in mental hospital. Of course, I cannot entirely verify if this is true.
I am rather confused with these terms and hope someone can enlightened me.
Gay = normal guys who only prefer sexual relationship with a male
Bi-sexual = guys who swing both way
Transexual = A person whom had undergone operation to change sex
Bapok = guys who dressed as women
Am I right? And then, has there been an increase in these numbers in our country because they seem very public nowadays.
*Note : I have no discrimination on the above category of people because they really do not concern me. We live in peace. However, I have a strong stand in this matter because same sex relationship is wrong and is sinful. It is against the Catholics faith and in the olden days, it was said that God killed a whole nation in Sodom and Gomorrah because they practised same sex relationship. This is mentioned in both the Quran and Bible. Are we heading back to doom?*
Argggghhh….please don’t flame me. I only write what I saw. If you are a gay and get pissed with what I said, please tell me why I shouldn’t think badly of gays. I need to learn.