but this is not related to Ayah Pin la. I believed everyone has seen the contrasting figures of the two wives of this man they call god, Ayah Pin. The first and the fourth wife?
I will be of the same age as the first wife in 18 years. And it makes me wonder….
She said she asked Ayah Pin to marry a few more wives so that they can take care of him. Though I have not much knowledge of Islam (which I do wonder if that is his religion), I believed a Muslim man can marry four wives but he does not HAVE to marry four wives unless he wants to.
OK, that’s not my point also. What I really, really want to say is :
Why in heaven and hell must a woman find another woman (and in this case, 3 women) to take care of her able-bodied husband?
Tell me, women, wives, girls, do you think you can ever have the big heart to let another woman to take care of your husband?
What is there to take care?
1) Food – can cook instant mee and feed him
2) Housekeeping – what is so difficult about sweeping floor
3) Bed – The hole is always there (and there is Kegel)
4) Massage – Just sign up bayar-bulan, tanpa bunga Osim chair
5) Communication – Even if you have gone deaf, mute and blind, you can still communicate by touch senses
What else does a fully grown, healthy man with two arms and two legs need taking care off? (as I said, I am NOT talking about Ayah Pin)
I reiterate – this is not questioning any person or religion. This is just PURELY my own musings.
Back in 2003 when I was going through my RCIA (Rites in Christianity Initiation Adult/1 year course before I baptised as a Catholic), our facilitators threw us this question.
1) What do you think is more acceptable to you?
a) Your husband’s regular visits to the chicken den (sorry hor, this blog is children friendly so chicken is food mah); or
b) Your husband keeping a regular woman
There was a lot of discussion and debates. I stood up and said, “Jesus said that if a part of your body cause you to sin, chop it off. Jesus also said if a man looks at another woman who is not his wife with lust, he has committed sins and will be….(I’d rather not repeat here)”. I earned a standing ovation. LOL!
My whole point is – Right until this age, there are still plenty of women who have this delusion that they CANNOT TAKE CARE of their husband and willingly let him romp. They would rather cried to death, eat their hearts out and continue to believe this shite. Puhleez, if you married a man, he will grow old along with you.
It is not that time freezes and he drank the youth elixir or monkey god’s peach and you grow old alone. He has no right to dump his wife because she is old/fat/sick/dying/disabled/loose/sag/whatever. Geddit? I don’t think so. Because I personally know a few women who treat the up north, Haadyai as a golf course where they openly and knowingly let these men visit regularly. It is like a sport to them, wor. Then, again, Haadyai is no longer safe and we have Cambodian/Vietnam and China dolls anyway.
Sorry, this is a very jumbled posting. I was supposed to write about organs donation but got sidetracked by the photo on the frontpage of the newspaper. *wipe cold sweats* Will I ever need to find a woman to take care of my atm when I am 58 yrs old? Pttuiii!
ANOTHER NEWS (not related of course)
Please go and congrat KS Tang on his marriage to a very beautiful Hongkong leng lui. I bet you will be highly entertained with his red flying fox pose. Psstt…on the eve of his wedding somemore.