I stumbled upon these blogs one day while looking through my Onestat. Usually, I try to make it a point to make a reciprocal visit if some new URL shows on my onestat.
I had been following sayang H’s blog. The blogger is a single mom with a daughter that I had referred as ‘pick lovingly to care’. Well, Ummi had gone through some tough times before. Yet, you can feel the strength she has and also touched with the vulnerability of a being a woman. Her last two posts about her abang, God’s gift and also ‘money can’t buy love‘ are must-read for all women, especially mothers.
I told Tinkerbell that I will share with her some blogs but never got around to do that because my son cleared my brower addresses. So, here’s another one must read blog. Littlemissacred. She went through equally bad times like losing her boyfriend (to death) and recently lost her father.
On her recent posts, I had encouraged her to continue doing what she feels best about burning hell money and all the things for her father. Though I do no longer practice this as a Catholic, I know that it is a very comforting ritual to perform for the departed loved ones. It gives the ‘connection’.
She has to deal not only with the death of her boyfriend but also see that she is able to ‘disengage’ herself from his family. Personally, I know I would have a hard time to move on with life because there is definitely some expectations or scrutinising from his family. So, she is definitely putting blogging to good use by taking steps to move on.
These blogs are a few of the many that I regularly visit. Most times, I do not comment because I’d rather say nothing than say something wrong. I hope others will be inspired with Ummi and LittleMisssacred’s strength inspite of their adversities.