One more week to being a year old blogger. Time for reflections. Appraisal time.
Do you read the blog that belongs to blogger you detest or read blog that make you roll eyes, wanna bitch slap and simply just hate it? On a regular basis?
I don’t. In fact, I would take off their links if I had been
unfortunate dumb enough to judge wrongly in the first place.
Yet, there are others who resort to this pathetic act. Some even keep an eye on the progress of the blog/bloggers they detested and flame at every opportunity. Sometimes, they came by and use an anon nick to do it.
Why? Why make life miserable for yourself? Does doing it make you feel superior? Is it worth keeping all those anger, revengeful feelings inside? What joy do you derive from typing that few lines when obviously, it is not something that can save the whales, sharks, tigers or rainforest or even the world?
Take for example comment #24, from one Singaporean woman who call her pathetic self UK Expat, in this post defending the Ah Lians and Ah Bengs. Obviously, she has followed my blog very closely, studying all the things that I had crapped (which I myself tend to forget because most things written are merely words, note my tagline ‘Lies’?) . But she did, following my progress and acting like some holy crap and try to ‘change’ me.
BTW, I always thank my lucky stars that I am always blessed with nice anon. people who did defend me even without my knowledge. They are real gems to have on earth. I love you all, whoever you are.
So, do you waste your time reading something, someone you simply hate? I don’t. I do not have enough time to even read every blogs and bloggers I like. So why bother reading lame blogs? I better use the time to learn something new by reading technology blog instead. Never mind that they are copy and paste job because you did learn something new.
Remember ya. If you dislike me (which is hard because I am so loveable LOL), just get the fuck out of here. Don’t make your own life miserable. I will feel bad for you ‘cos you probably couldn’t get an orgasm or erection due to too much hatred.
So, lesson #118 is – Never read blog/bloggers you dislike.