Ladies, married ones especially, let’s do a little thinking?
Assuming we have this special encounter with the Big One (our Creator) and he tells us something like this:
Woman, This is the life’s path I chosed for you. Somewhere along, your spouse is going to be unfaithful. I shall give you the choice of choosing the type:
a) He flings with prostitutes;
b) He have one serious relationship with a mistress.
Take your pick.
Now, let’s see what my choice is. I would prefer (a). (b) is a bigger betrayal. We were asked this question in our religious class once. My answer was : If your eyes caused you to sin, gauge it out!
For the men, I have a kisah benar to share. I had a colleague who used to frequent Haadyai when he was younger. Back then, rubbers were not favoured. He contracted some STD which eventually caused him to be permanently damaged as in not being able to function anymore. He can’t read his medical records and asked someone to explain for him and this other guy told me. Hence, I carried that secret knowledge for a long time.
Later on, he got married. Someone privy to his homelife told a few of us of his wife frequent attempts at suicides. At the same time, he was playing the playboy by going around with the production workers. One of the production worker leaked out that Mr. Playboy is the typical gentleman who would bring her to nice hotels, bought her expensive gifts and never take advantage of her.
Since I was the seipatphor who knew the background, I managed to string all them and have this to say : Don’t play-play, you may end up like Mr. Playboy- who- can’t- stand. Or even worse, another guy who died of a ‘mysterious disease’. Think karma, listen to your mama.