Comments on: Drowning in a car in the depth of the ocean http://www.chanlilian.net/2006/04/21/drowning-in-a-car-in-the-depth-of-the-ocean/ Life, Lies, Sex, Humor, Politics of a Malaysian blogger Mon, 06 Feb 2012 12:27:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Still praying for SCB - 5xmom ~ Humour, Life, Lies, Sex http://www.chanlilian.net/2006/04/21/drowning-in-a-car-in-the-depth-of-the-ocean/comment-page-1/#comment-18626 Still praying for SCB - 5xmom ~ Humour, Life, Lies, Sex Sun, 07 May 2006 06:31:19 +0000 http://chanlilian.net/2006/04/21/drowning-in-a-car-in-the-depth-of-the-ocean/#comment-18626 [...] Do you all remember the nightmare I mentioned the other day?  That I dreamt of SCB?  Actually, I confided to someone that it is my way of lifting up some of her agonies because when I was in that nightmare, I can feel the distress of a person not able to breath (as in underwater).  In a way, I see it as my means of reaching out to her through our spirits.  That I know how she feels and know her sufferings. [...] [...] Do you all remember the nightmare I mentioned the other day?  That I dreamt of SCB?  Actually, I confided to someone that it is my way of lifting up some of her agonies because when I was in that nightmare, I can feel the distress of a person not able to breath (as in underwater).  In a way, I see it as my means of reaching out to her through our spirits.  That I know how she feels and know her sufferings. [...]

]]> By: Irene http://www.chanlilian.net/2006/04/21/drowning-in-a-car-in-the-depth-of-the-ocean/comment-page-1/#comment-17941 Irene Fri, 21 Apr 2006 13:21:08 +0000 http://chanlilian.net/2006/04/21/drowning-in-a-car-in-the-depth-of-the-ocean/#comment-17941 Can't help it... 1st time leave comment here too ;p it reminds me of a very strange dream that my late-bf mother had. It's really really... I'm out of word to describe. Just a story to share with all of you. My bf passed away on Boxing Day at Phuket in 2004. The day before the incident, his mother dreamt that he's playing with his pet, a kitten that had died long long time ago when he's still a little boy. She thought that it's very strange and told her family about it. Then when they switched on the TV, there's the news of that incident. Not long after that, my bf's colleague that is supposed to be on the same flight as him told his family that my bf had went to Phuket and asking whether he's all right or not. They tried every way to contact him but failed. So they decided to fly to Phuket from Aus and hopefully can meet up with him there but at the end... after waiting for nearly 3 weeks, he's confirmed dead. Worst, I only knew about his missing about 2 weeks++ later and only knew that he's dead from his friend's e-mail one day after his funeral. He didn't tell me at all that he's going to Phuket because he was supposed to be on the way to LA. Who knows... he actually took 3-week-leave and wanted to come over to surprise me after spending 3 days at Phuket but he's gone on the 2nd day there. His fmaily didn't inform me because we had not make our relationship known to anybody. They only knew about me from his friend that had sent me the e-mail. Then his sister contacted me that they had released his ashes to the Indian Ocean since he liked the sea a lot. We were supposed to announce our relationship when he come to visit me but... ah well... it's not yours, it will never be yours... On that day itself, I even spilt a spoonful of dried chili and almost spilt the whole glass of barley while I was celebrating my colleague's b'day. Thinking back of it... really scary... so now, everytime if I dream, I really worry that something will happen. CHIO CHOI CHOI :P Can’t help it… 1st time leave comment here too ;p it reminds me of a very strange dream that my late-bf mother had. It’s really really… I’m out of word to describe. Just a story to share with all of you.

My bf passed away on Boxing Day at Phuket in 2004. The day before the incident, his mother dreamt that he’s playing with his pet, a kitten that had died long long time ago when he’s still a little boy. She thought that it’s very strange and told her family about it. Then when they switched on the TV, there’s the news of that incident. Not long after that, my bf’s colleague that is supposed to be on the same flight as him told his family that my bf had went to Phuket and asking whether he’s all right or not. They tried every way to contact him but failed. So they decided to fly to Phuket from Aus and hopefully can meet up with him there but at the end… after waiting for nearly 3 weeks, he’s confirmed dead.

Worst, I only knew about his missing about 2 weeks++ later and only knew that he’s dead from his friend’s e-mail one day after his funeral. He didn’t tell me at all that he’s going to Phuket because he was supposed to be on the way to LA. Who knows… he actually took 3-week-leave and wanted to come over to surprise me after spending 3 days at Phuket but he’s gone on the 2nd day there.

His fmaily didn’t inform me because we had not make our relationship known to anybody. They only knew about me from his friend that had sent me the e-mail. Then his sister contacted me that they had released his ashes to the Indian Ocean since he liked the sea a lot. We were supposed to announce our relationship when he come to visit me but… ah well… it’s not yours, it will never be yours…

On that day itself, I even spilt a spoonful of dried chili and almost spilt the whole glass of barley while I was celebrating my colleague’s b’day.

Thinking back of it… really scary… so now, everytime if I dream, I really worry that something will happen. CHIO CHOI CHOI :P

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