Empty bed
Posted on May 4th, 2006 by Lilian • Filed under: Life and rants
Heh, with a kid like that, how can any father run away?
You see, my atm has work in KL for a couple of days and the little guy is missing him lots.
Phone calls after phone calls of ‘I miss you”. And poor kid got teary eyes with the last one ‘cos it is really bed time. He didn’t not cry but just got some tears at the corner of his eyes. When I asked him, “why your eyes wet-wet?”, he denied with a loud, “NO LAH”. Awwwww…
Later on, in bed, I used his papa’s cap pagoda t-shirt which he worn last night to wrap his bolster. LOL, that t-shirt smells like it has pH 1.5 acidity and the poor kid hug it to sleep to get his papa’s smell. Double awwww…..(and puke!)
Before falling asleep, he was sort of dreamy eyes and I asked him, “Why, you miss papa?” Another loud, “NO LAH”. The ‘no lah’ is a denial that he normally use when he felt bad about something but did not want to admit. Triple awwww….
Muahahahahar…I am going to exaggerate all these and make it even more dramatic when I relate it to the papa. It is gonna break his heart. And with a poor and miserable kid waiting at home, how can any man possibly open his doors to any Cambodian or Vietnamese or China mui-muis or stay away at some mistress’s apartment? Kehkehkeh…another petua kebahagian rumahtangga dari saluran infotainmen kesukaan anda – Lima kali mama. (translation: another happy family tip from your favourite info-tainment channel – 5xmom)
As for me – urgggh…the only part I hate about being a temporary single parent is my responsibility of waking up at 6.20 am followed by 7.20 am in morning. My kids had warned me that if I failed to wake them, then it is my responsibility to write a letter for their absence. Tralalala, sap-sap sui ler, Word document will handle that. But seriously, I never hear a peep from the two alarm clocks (one for the older sons, one for the younger son to wake later) or the state mosque azan subuh every morning so I don’t know if I am going to hear it tomorrow morning. Must pray-pray first before sleeping.
Hehehe!! good one.. lilian..! i also use it often with chloe’s grampie and grampie.. to tuck their heartstrings.. kekekekeke!!
I think only asian woman .. does that eh..??
Hey Hey. Wake up lah!!!
Trying to be a good friend and help ya. Poor little guy. *ruffle hair* My missus has been gone three weeks and I am really really feeling it last couple of days. Haiz…
So when men get mistresses the call them mui muis? Eeee should I not call my little blog girl friends that? Dun wanna missus get wrong idea.
nolah, i think lilian is trying to hide the fact that it is infact she who is missing the papa..no?
poor chaps.
lucky atm not muslim…or else can mutaah 4 wives… haa haa in every guys’ dream rite?
time to sleep now..after azan and tia wakey-wakey daddy..time for feed
wah ur little one so ‘sticky’ to his dad meh? heheheheheh
or was it u?
u wrap the tshirt on your bolster? hahahah
funny lah
Hahaha. So… did you wake up on time this morning?
i agree with wuching, auntie is missing uncle more than her kid.
and is that a mirror image or am i seeing 2 beds? why got 2 beds wan?
No lah…with so many kids, where got time 2 miss?? I travel a lot though I’m a teacher – bring students 4 compettiions, attend courses, meetings, seminars. My last trip was to KK & I sent a request to TraxxFm; the DJ said, “U teacher or travelling salesman? Don’t u know your daughter misses u?” cos the week b4 I was in Limbang. Then I got sms from my girl;she heard and her message read, “True! True! I agree!” Sigh! Wat 2 do? Call of duty!
11.59 am! I woke up! I.e. sleeping at 2am, woke at 6.20 am, went back to nap for a while, wake again at 7.20 am and back to sleep. Yay! I am not deaf after all!
STP – Wuah…you so family man at heart hor? Good la. Some men cannot wait to get out of the house and on the road.
ahpek – That one dunno what hotel mya bilik la. You think I so neat meh, fold the blankets so well?
MG – Got, got. And got headache a bit cos I heard the teet-teet-teet from the first alarm clock and dream dunno what until after a while only realise it is the alarm.
ahpek – Haiyoh…you think you can miss your loupoh with just one nite anot? Sure kenot la.
zberjnak – If I am just married, maybe lah. Married for so long, if I do that, I sakit jiwa lor. Need a shrink to check if I am dangerously obssessed.
azrin – Heh, lucky indeed.
wuching – 20 years liao where to find that kind of ‘miss-miss’ feelings.
SA – Mui-muis are little sisters. So it depends on your usage. You have been on long haul, right? Besides the company, one does miss the extra pair of hands cos we gotta do every thing ourselves. I see that you are coping well.
MamaBoK – I think it is the wily Asian women’s trick. Hahaha, it is in our blood!
lol. your post is as funny as ever.
20 years of marriage. I think it should be like some XO; the more the better, doubt if you don’t miss your hubby.
poor little guy…better enjoy these kind of moments…I’m sure you know, when they grow up, no more this kind of ‘miss-miss’ feelings. anyway, I hope you will get chances to catch your sleep better.
poor boi :p