Comments on: Misyar marriage – Like that oso can ah? http://www.chanlilian.net/2006/05/28/%e2%80%98misyar%e2%80%99-marriage-like-that-oso-can-ah/ Life, Lies, Sex, Humor, Politics of a Malaysian blogger Mon, 06 Feb 2012 12:27:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Asadullah Khan http://www.chanlilian.net/2006/05/28/%e2%80%98misyar%e2%80%99-marriage-like-that-oso-can-ah/comment-page-1/#comment-96200 Asadullah Khan Sat, 12 Jul 2008 07:06:52 +0000 http://chanlilian.net/2006/05/28/%e2%80%98misyar%e2%80%99-marriage-like-that-oso-can-ah/#comment-96200 The misyar marriage is totaly not acceptable, No one can not avoid his responsibilities which is embeded in marraige in isalm like material support, Home, or in broader Term KIFALAT. Ok women can say but Men is legally responsible. So Misyar Marraiges are totally is for sex only, which can not be accepted. Thanks The misyar marriage is totaly not acceptable, No one can not avoid his responsibilities which is embeded in marraige in isalm like material support, Home, or in broader Term KIFALAT.

Ok women can say but Men is legally responsible. So Misyar Marraiges are totally is for sex only, which can not be accepted.

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]]> By: Prince http://www.chanlilian.net/2006/05/28/%e2%80%98misyar%e2%80%99-marriage-like-that-oso-can-ah/comment-page-1/#comment-95057 Prince Tue, 17 Jun 2008 06:05:12 +0000 http://chanlilian.net/2006/05/28/%e2%80%98misyar%e2%80%99-marriage-like-that-oso-can-ah/#comment-95057 By the way, Note that this is not an encouraged type of agreement. Because it defeats the purpose of marriage. It is only recommended under necessity. For instance, if a guy and girl are in college, and stay separately in different hostels. If there is no necessity, then it is discouraged, but not a sin, as long as all requirements are met. To put it in simpler terms, and I honestly do not mean to insult anyone, it is like when you have a contract with a phone company, and you have a right to get customer care, but you do not need it (e.g you already know everything about your phone). In relation to misyar, it does not mean you cannot call the customer care, it just means you just agreed you won't call (something like gentleman's agreement) By the way,

Note that this is not an encouraged type of agreement. Because it defeats the purpose of marriage. It is only recommended under necessity. For instance, if a guy and girl are in college, and stay separately in different hostels. If there is no necessity, then it is discouraged, but not a sin, as long as all requirements are met.

To put it in simpler terms, and I honestly do not mean to insult anyone, it is like when you have a contract with a phone company, and you have a right to get customer care, but you do not need it (e.g you already know everything about your phone). In relation to misyar, it does not mean you cannot call the customer care, it just means you just agreed you won’t call (something like gentleman’s agreement)

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