Over the last few days, I have received a few emails. I will not reveal the content but re-phrase the question. So, please share you feedback here, ok?
First question : How do I get over my crush for someone?
I hope you don’t mind me writing this in my post instead of replying directly to you. If I reply direct to you and my suggestions bombed, you will hold me liable. If I ask my regular readers to share, you can hentam kuat-kuat them instead of me! Hehehe.
OK, firstly, everyone get some crushes in their lives. Your mom, your dad, the spinster next door, the 55 years old bachelor selling newspapers etc etc. So having crushes is so oh! normal. Question is how do you define crushes and real targets? I suppose crushes are having those butterflies feelings for someone that you are not suppose to have. Like someone’s else girlfriend, boyfriend, husband, wife, mother (Hahaha) etc etc.
The problem when having crushes is when you hide that feelings and secretly feed it with dark, inner desires that will consume all your braincells. So, if it is a crush, just share the silly secret with a trusted friend, giggles over it and soon, you will notice that it was just merely silly passe. Don’t end up as those who got so obssessed they turn cuckoo. Because one can looks like a dork when they got too obssessed.
So, how to get over it? Find some things that are time consuming to do and divert your attention. Like learning a new thing, cross-stitch for eg. LOL. Or go blog about it. Within a few days/weeks, I bet you will get over it. Or you can find someone else to have a crush on? Michael Jackson for e.g.? LOL.
There….no worries, it is part of life to have crushes on others. It is immature to take things too seriously. It is adult to be able to move on, find better things to do and not wallow over it. Cheers and better crush next time!
So, to all my kepoh readers, tolong kasi tips. How to get over your crush?