5xmom, no more

Posted on March 31st, 2007 by Lilian  •  Filed under: Family

I don’t know how to break this to you guys. It is almost embarrassing to say the least. A few buddies closed me had been ignored by me. I got over sensitive with things. Ignorant readers got flamed over nothing. Long time readers get it too. I can blame it on PMS. I can blame it on menopause (which blardy hell I am wayyyy not qualified yet, ok?) I have terrible mood swings.

But recently, I had been getting nauseous, giddy and all those shitty feelings. I don’t mean to ignore some of you on MSN. I don’t mean to show my temper. I shouldn’t act like a blog diva and tell you guys, “Like I care I have one less reader.”

I am really sorry and hope you can all understand my feelings. It is not easy for me. I am 43 years old. By the time my child is 10 years old, I will be 53. By the time he is old enough to marry at 30 years, I will be long dead and can’t see my grandkids.

My last pregnancy with Matthew was terribly hard. How am I going to cope with this new one?

Please don’t congratulate me yet. I am awfully afraid that I may not end up with what I should. As you know pregnancy for a woman my age is awfully dangerous. But what to do….

Earl-ku and SK asked if I want a girl this time? Yes, why not? I love pink so much…

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If you are my long time, understanding buddies, please stand-by me. Don’t laugh. If you are seriously touched with my news, maybe you can say something nice without giving me pressures? I hope the pregnancy will be smooth sailing……




80 Responses to “5xmom, no more”

  1. The K-Kia, on March 31st, 2007 at 1:59 am Said:

    WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT?!!!!
    New baby on the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG WHAT ABOUT YOUR K-KIA?! YOU IGNORE ME BECAUSE OF THIS ISSUE TOO KA?! WAHLAO… congrats lar… K-mak, I really doubt if you will switch attention and no longer cares about me ler… Dunno should happy or sad… but anyway congrats lar!

  2. Samm, on March 31st, 2007 at 2:06 am Said:

    So, all the symptoms u’ve been telling me right on the dot lohhhh. Okay lah, i’ll be sending you all the nutritional requirements for preggies as per your request asap, k. HUGZZZZ!!!!

  3. wingz, on March 31st, 2007 at 2:06 am Said:

    congrats la! see? i told you sure kena one la! u dun belif me!!! now mana mau lari??!!

  4. Chris, on March 31st, 2007 at 2:17 am Said:

    Hi Ms Li Lian.

    Stay cheerful and funny. Be yourself, always. You’ll do great with your new bundle of joy.

  5. shoppingmum and kids, on March 31st, 2007 at 2:18 am Said:

    Why laugh? It’s a good news. Take more rest ya?

  6. pinksterz, on March 31st, 2007 at 2:29 am Said:

    hey! congratz! the new title kinda sounds cool too!

    5xmom plus one! woot!

  7. SK, on March 31st, 2007 at 2:31 am Said:

    Hey Lilian, I’m really happy for you too!

    Congratulations!

  8. Immomsdaughter, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:07 am Said:

    Don’t worry, it’s NOT embarassing and thanks for sharing the news. We can relate to the mood swings ;) Take care and pretty in pink would be a great experience :)

  9. Jacy, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:18 am Said:

    Congrats!
    Will keep u and ur new baby in my prayers
    Take care and God bless.

  10. littlepolaris, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:29 am Said:

    hi lilian,
    congratulation! dun worry so much about age problem! My mum gave birth to my little brother at 40 and my little brother is 12 yrs younger than me ^^. Jia you! Children are gifts from above.

  11. grace, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:37 am Said:

    Hi Lilian, I mayb too young to understand but still, cheer up! I’m sure this pregnancy will b a smooth sailing one ;) Don’t worry aight!

  12. sue, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:39 am Said:

    Hey Lilian, cheer up :) Best thing is now you might have a girl to pink with you *grins* Take care ya…

  13. Amy, on March 31st, 2007 at 5:19 am Said:

    I hope all turns out well, Lillian. Thinking of you!

  14. Owen, on March 31st, 2007 at 5:20 am Said:

    Hi Lilian, We (me and all my family) are behind you all the way! Take care of yourself and if there’s anything we can do to help . .. just shout!

  15. Gertrude, on March 31st, 2007 at 6:08 am Said:

    CONGRATULATIONS !!!! That is very good new. I pray that everything will turn out well for you and this time it will be a beautiful baby girl ;)

    Gert

  16. laundryamah, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:13 am Said:

    OH this is not embarassing but GOOD news wat! Oh may God bless you with a beautiful and healthy baby, better if it’s a GIRL!!! OH so happy for you! Pls take care & rest well, my cousin had her first after 40..she made it! I’m sure you will!

  17. mumsgather, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:32 am Said:

    Oh I’m so happy for you. You know wut? Your mood swings has set in adi.You even sound different, apologising and all. Hahaha. And no, 43 is not late. You just have to take care of yourself. I’m 41 and still hoping for my third but no such luck yet. Take care woman.

  18. Aaron@AxiaL, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:37 am Said:

    Fuyoh!
    So now got baby blogger coming to join us?
    Quite fun mah~

  19. romantic, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:53 am Said:

    Congratulations Lilian.. wah now whatever you want ATM has to give LOL even mee rebus at 3 a.m. LOL
    No worries lah , many of my friends have kids late some even at 51. Her daughter and the granddaughter same age :)

  20. jazzee, on March 31st, 2007 at 8:32 am Said:

    Congratulations Lilian. May you be blessed with a smooth uneventful pregnancy, and also blessed with a healthy child, girl or boy.
    Again, congratulations to you and husband, and to all your sons as well.
    *thinks* Lilian is seeing pink…vaio led the way, cute pink cheeks on the way, pretty pink bodysuits and dresses to follow.
    Enjoy and have fun Lilian. Take extra special care of both you and baby.

  21. terence, on March 31st, 2007 at 9:25 am Said:

    Dont know much about pregnancy but I will be your clown when u need to laff, your punching bag when u need to release tension and I am all ears when you need to talk.

    *In case others (some woman) speculate about our friendship, we are just good online friends. I am in Melaka and she is in Penang. The ironic thing is we never get to meet before ( but then again, like we care what they think lah hor)*

    Ah Lian, take good care of yourself. Laff at my Ron somemore, sendiri kena. Bwahahahaha!

  22. meendee, on March 31st, 2007 at 10:14 am Said:

    Could it be your pink fetish was a sign of this to come :) May God bless you and your family in abundance, Lilian, and see you through in every way!

  23. Ah Pek, on March 31st, 2007 at 10:17 am Said:

    HAIYOOOHHHH!!!

  24. Ah Pek, on March 31st, 2007 at 10:19 am Said:

    How come so big news, now oni I know wan?????

  25. -PC-, on March 31st, 2007 at 10:42 am Said:

    CONGRATSSS.. u got our support.

  26. th_c, on March 31st, 2007 at 10:45 am Said:

    I’m so so so happy for you till i have tears in my eyes, i’m in my first pregnancy and i read your ‘mymomsbest’ forum. I dunno why, i just feel so excited over this! You must take very good care. 6xmom.

  27. SiwwyPig, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:07 am Said:

    Lilian, I am so happy for you… Really… I am sure a lot of people will support you dear.. Cause I know I am… Congratulations to you… and your hubby.. :)

  28. Cindy Chin, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:08 am Said:

    Congrats…. give birth at this age ain’t dangerous, as you’ve records of 5x already. During this period, you ought to be happy, cheerful, joyful so that your child is a happy baby when born.
    You shld be happy and grateful for what you’ve have, as some people are praying to have one unfortunately God is not answering her prayer… Probably he over heard or he’s too busy to attend her prayer.

    So, all of us, everyone in this cyberworld are happy for you and truely understand your ‘mood swings’….

    I guess, we’ll be expecting less write ups from you when your tummy is growing bigger… :-(

  29. PeNNyPupZ, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:20 am Said:

    OMFG SO COOLS!!!! GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL!! hahahaha congrats

  30. Lawrence, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:29 am Said:

    wow !! congratulations !!!

    if you are craving for kaya , or cakes hor ..then just sms me huh ? even durian also can but only the paste. my second one cheah pok pok is damn cheeky and pat por / talkative one. But really fun to have a little doll at home for you to design hair style for them.

    By the way , your kopi Pak Ali powder still left anymore at home ? Malaysia Boleh !! Yahoo !!

  31. Athene, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:30 am Said:

    FINALLY there’s a logical explanation to how things have been lately, I was beginning to be a little bit afraid of/for you for awhile there.

    Anyho, this is great news. Maybe all those pink fetish is a coming sign of the great leader who’s going to rule over the house of Loh :)

    Hope this is contagious, maybe it will rub on me.

  32. Erina Law, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:42 am Said:

    Kong Hei Kong Hei!!! I am so happy to hear that when Lawrence first told me about it. If get a girl, sure become diamond in the family liau. Crave for asam???? Let me know

  33. earl-ku, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:42 am Said:

    hehhehehehehe

  34. Erin, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:48 am Said:

    Oh my God! Congrats Lilian ! Make sure u sleep well and take care of your health,don’t stay too late at nite hor ! I’ll keep you in my prayer!

  35. Zoe, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:48 am Said:

    Congrats!! So happy for you. Been a silent reader for a while now. Don’t worry about ppl laughing at you. Why would they? My youngest bro is 10 yrs old this year making me 13 years his senior. Its gonna be fine. Think about the happiness this small lil bub will bring to u & ur family! :D :D :D :D

  36. Birds Talking, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:49 am Said:

    Congrats Lilian!

    WOW!! Looks like we gonna have another hot blogger in future!
    Our family and I wishes you all the best as we are sure that at 43…no problemo! Your ATM must be very proud!!

    Cheers and Regards,

  37. -Princess Shin-, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:58 am Said:

    I know you don’t want to be congratulated but I’m still gonna congratulate you! =) Hope everything goes smoothly. My mother was pregnant at that age too. twice! But.. it was a very terrible time for us. Just look after yourself okay? Be careful. Don’t carry heavy stuff and all. Good luck and take care!

  38. menj, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:00 pm Said:

    I think congrats are in order.

    - MENJ

  39. gbyeow, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:09 pm Said:

    Hugs and kisses :)

  40. Angelineee, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:24 pm Said:

    Hi Mom,
    dont worry la,with gods grce,mercy and guidance you will be fine,you are held in his hands and he will see you thru this pregnancy!!
    My sister is 11 years younger then me and mum got pregnant around your age as well and she pulled thru am sure you are able toas well!!
    Take Care and God Bless!!

  41. eve, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:28 pm Said:

    wow…great news indeed…and yeah , i can understand the mood swings too..aww….congrats..*hugss*

  42. Jacelyn, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:28 pm Said:

    Hi, Lilian. Congrat!! Don’t worry too much! Just take more rest and eat well. Even Lin Qing Xia gave her 2nd birth at 46 yrs old! Why worry?

    Btw, my name is called Lee Lian too! Take care ya…

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  44. Bryan, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:37 pm Said:

    I’m gonna register http://www.6xmom.com and squat!! :D

  45. Lovelymummy, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:43 pm Said:

    Hi there, it’s a good news.I’m so surprised to hear the news… Anyway, do rest more ok…take good care…

  46. nalini, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:44 pm Said:

    congrats Lilian!! and hang in there mommah!

  47. bkworm, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:47 pm Said:

    Congratulations!! Your news gives me renewed hope for myself. :)

  48. Irene, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:48 pm Said:

    I got shocked when I saw it in my WP dashboard. -.-” Hopefully everything goes well.

  49. linsey, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:51 pm Said:

    happy happy 6xmom on the way!
    it’s going to be a ‘sui cha bor’ one day hehe
    take cares and good luck =)

  50. CincauHangus, on March 31st, 2007 at 12:56 pm Said:

    siXmom. *counts with one hand* EH not enough fingers!

    *counts with two hands*

    wahh.. alot leh… haha.. congrats!!!

  51. Che-Cheh, on March 31st, 2007 at 1:14 pm Said:

    Congratsssssss Lilian!
    So happy for you. Wish you a speedy pregnancy.
    Aim for a girl hor.

  52. Saygore, on March 31st, 2007 at 1:20 pm Said:

    Oooo… 6Xmom,
    i remember many years ago my 18 yr old friend embarassingly announced that his 50 yr old mother is pregnant and he is going to have a baby brother 18yrs younger than him. he keep on saying how shy and shameful it is to face his friend. none of us friends jokes about it. is God’s will to add another member to his family.
    anyway Lilian, do be extra careful. you are little too old to be a preggo. i am sure you know very well how to handle.
    God bless

  53. Shireen K, on March 31st, 2007 at 1:27 pm Said:

    huang huang huang… you will be fine ler e-kaima .. u will be fine.. no anxiety no second doubts ok.. :D

    must be a girl this time!! may god be with you always.

  54. decypher, on March 31st, 2007 at 2:47 pm Said:

    Wao. Congrats. :D

  55. lil'd, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:31 pm Said:

    congrats! u have to rest more, blog less and don’t stay up too late… & God bless

  56. Boss Stewie, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:49 pm Said:

    Lilian,

    Congratulations indeed on your upcoming baby.

    It’s always a joy to have a new addition to your family.

  57. dylan, on March 31st, 2007 at 3:51 pm Said:

    Congrats! May god bless you!

  58. simon, on March 31st, 2007 at 4:25 pm Said:

    thanks for sharing. maybe the pink laptop and all that stuff was a sign eh?

  59. HM, on March 31st, 2007 at 5:34 pm Said:

    Congrats Aunt Lilian!! I guess this runs in the family (genetic). My mom gave birth to Desmond at the age of 43 too!!

  60. wingz, on March 31st, 2007 at 5:42 pm Said:

    woah mch 60 comments?!!!! i also never have 60 comments b4!!!!

  61. Sooi Sooi, on March 31st, 2007 at 6:32 pm Said:

    *SQUEALS!!!*

    CONGRATS Lilian!!! What a blessing!! *SQUEALS AGAIN*

    (psst…but i thot u ikat oredi? how come still can pregnant one?)

  62. wuching, on March 31st, 2007 at 6:48 pm Said:

    it is indeed a joyous news! i wish u well & pray for smooth sailing..this is exciting indeed, like i’m pregnant lidat!

  63. waika, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:03 pm Said:

    顺产=自然平安地生下孩子。

  64. zewt, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:14 pm Said:

    wooooahhhhh Woooaaaahhhh WoaaaaaaHHH WOOOOAAAAHHHHHHH…..

    first question in my mind…. 43 and still hot at it eh? :P :P :P ….

    jokes aside… congrats… and may God grant you a safe and smooth pregnancy, sincerely (not a sarcastic comment).

  65. Jessica, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:17 pm Said:

    5xmom,

    Grats on the GOOD news. You shouldn’t worry so, all of us are rooting for you and we know you can get through this…eeeps!! I’m sooooooo excited for you o_o” don’t worry k!! My grandma had like…-counts- 12 kids with 2 who went in between 12 of them. My youngest uncle is 10 years older than me leh :P she’s 79 liao means hah she got him when she was 49!

    >_> actually she had 3 kids after 40, so you see ah, it’s normal ^^ so yea, grats!!

  66. may, on March 31st, 2007 at 7:35 pm Said:

    Congrats ! Wishing you all the best. And do take care.

  67. Ling, on March 31st, 2007 at 8:35 pm Said:

    everything happens for a reason.God must have his reasons.Just take it as it is.A child is a gift. No one will laugh.Is really a good news that another life is to the world soon coming soon.:)..

  68. eevet, on March 31st, 2007 at 8:56 pm Said:

    Congrates! At first I thought that this post is an April Fool prank.. however the more I read, the more I do believe that this 5x mom is wu ngia tiok lottery ! wa.. hua he hua he! Kiong he Kiong He! Chiang! Chiang !Chiang!Time to celebrate a new life!

    P/S: Auntie Lilian… there are medical reports on women who gave brith at their sixties.. no worries.. YOU STILL YOUNG la~ kekeke.. Nvy u and ur ATM , so ” en ai”..

  69. nicholas, on March 31st, 2007 at 10:49 pm Said:

    congratulations anyway…and happy april fool’s day~

  70. Kean-Jin Lim, on March 31st, 2007 at 10:54 pm Said:

    Congratulation !!! Congratulation !!!

  71. frostier, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:07 pm Said:

    congratulation!!
    it’s a god gift to you.
    and hopefully its a girl since u mentioned it.

    But sometimes, my friends always pull the gun out.

  72. Jac, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:08 pm Said:

    First of all, i’m here to congratulate Aunty for the gift of GOD but but i hope you will not burst the news 2mrow that you’ve “got” us all……coz it’s an April Fool !!!
    Sad or happy, you still live so why not choose to face it with cheers & pleasures instead. Do take good care!

  73. Skyler, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:40 pm Said:

    OOOOOHHHH, huge news.

    I was thinking “is she having another baby…?” when I saw the title and woohoo, I got it right!

    Congratulations :D

  74. Lilian, on March 31st, 2007 at 11:40 pm Said:

    WUAH….I tell you guys lah, I whole day went out to Queensbay mall and Gurney Plaza. I thot by 3rd or 4th comments, sure got ppl say, chey….bluff wan. Manatau, skali come back see so many comments. And even my own sister also got pranked. Soli hor, I wanted to reveal tomorrow on April Fools but I damn guilty for lying so I posted the next post.

    Anyway, thanks to every single one of you. I am so, so touched with these kind thoughts. I learnt a lesson – That I shall treasure of all you guys even more for the friendships, concerns and kindness. *makes mental to make my blog even more entertaining*

  75. earl-ku, on April 1st, 2007 at 3:55 am Said:

    ***middle finger …

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  78. Josette, on April 1st, 2007 at 10:59 pm Said:

    Wow! Hi Lilian! Just wanna wish you congratulations and I’m happy for you. My mom had me when she was 41 and I was fine. Take good care of yourself and pray to God for your health and the baby’s. =D

  79. janice, on April 2nd, 2007 at 9:08 am Said:

    wahahaha… i was about to leave a comment to congrats you and ask you to take care … manatau !! It’s an April Fool’s Joke !! wahahaha…

  80. Desperate Mummy, on April 2nd, 2007 at 11:51 pm Said:

    Aiya, I’m so happy for u when I get to know from my colleagues that u are pregnant. See see is a April Fools jokes :(

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