I don’t know how to break this to you guys. It is almost embarrassing to say the least. A few buddies closed me had been ignored by me. I got over sensitive with things. Ignorant readers got flamed over nothing. Long time readers get it too. I can blame it on PMS. I can blame it on menopause (which blardy hell I am wayyyy not qualified yet, ok?) I have terrible mood swings.
But recently, I had been getting nauseous, giddy and all those shitty feelings. I don’t mean to ignore some of you on MSN. I don’t mean to show my temper. I shouldn’t act like a blog diva and tell you guys, “Like I care I have one less reader.”
I am really sorry and hope you can all understand my feelings. It is not easy for me. I am 43 years old. By the time my child is 10 years old, I will be 53. By the time he is old enough to marry at 30 years, I will be long dead and can’t see my grandkids.
My last pregnancy with Matthew was terribly hard. How am I going to cope with this new one?
Please don’t congratulate me yet. I am awfully afraid that I may not end up with what I should. As you know pregnancy for a woman my age is awfully dangerous. But what to do….
Earl-ku and SK asked if I want a girl this time? Yes, why not? I love pink so much…
If you are my long time, understanding buddies, please stand-by me. Don’t laugh. If you are seriously touched with my news, maybe you can say something nice without giving me pressures? I hope the pregnancy will be smooth sailing……
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1:59 am on March 31st, 2007 1
WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOT?!!!!
New baby on the way!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG WHAT ABOUT YOUR K-KIA?! YOU IGNORE ME BECAUSE OF THIS ISSUE TOO KA?! WAHLAO… congrats lar… K-mak, I really doubt if you will switch attention and no longer cares about me ler… Dunno should happy or sad… but anyway congrats lar!
2:06 am on March 31st, 2007 2
So, all the symptoms u’ve been telling me right on the dot lohhhh. Okay lah, i’ll be sending you all the nutritional requirements for preggies as per your request asap, k. HUGZZZZ!!!!
2:06 am on March 31st, 2007 3
congrats la! see? i told you sure kena one la! u dun belif me!!! now mana mau lari??!!
2:17 am on March 31st, 2007 4
Hi Ms Li Lian.
Stay cheerful and funny. Be yourself, always. You’ll do great with your new bundle of joy.
2:18 am on March 31st, 2007 5
Why laugh? It’s a good news. Take more rest ya?
2:29 am on March 31st, 2007 6
hey! congratz! the new title kinda sounds cool too!
5xmom plus one! woot!
2:31 am on March 31st, 2007 7
Hey Lilian, I’m really happy for you too!
Congratulations!
3:07 am on March 31st, 2007 8
Don’t worry, it’s NOT embarassing and thanks for sharing the news. We can relate to the mood swings
Take care and pretty in pink would be a great experience 
3:18 am on March 31st, 2007 9
Congrats!
Will keep u and ur new baby in my prayers
Take care and God bless.
3:29 am on March 31st, 2007 10
hi lilian,
congratulation! dun worry so much about age problem! My mum gave birth to my little brother at 40 and my little brother is 12 yrs younger than me ^^. Jia you! Children are gifts from above.
3:37 am on March 31st, 2007 11
Hi Lilian, I mayb too young to understand but still, cheer up! I’m sure this pregnancy will b a smooth sailing one
Don’t worry aight!
3:39 am on March 31st, 2007 12
Hey Lilian, cheer up
Best thing is now you might have a girl to pink with you *grins* Take care ya…
5:19 am on March 31st, 2007 13
I hope all turns out well, Lillian. Thinking of you!
5:20 am on March 31st, 2007 14
Hi Lilian, We (me and all my family) are behind you all the way! Take care of yourself and if there’s anything we can do to help . .. just shout!
6:08 am on March 31st, 2007 15
CONGRATULATIONS !!!! That is very good new. I pray that everything will turn out well for you and this time it will be a beautiful baby girl
Gert
7:13 am on March 31st, 2007 16
OH this is not embarassing but GOOD news wat! Oh may God bless you with a beautiful and healthy baby, better if it’s a GIRL!!! OH so happy for you! Pls take care & rest well, my cousin had her first after 40..she made it! I’m sure you will!
7:32 am on March 31st, 2007 17
Oh I’m so happy for you. You know wut? Your mood swings has set in adi.You even sound different, apologising and all. Hahaha. And no, 43 is not late. You just have to take care of yourself. I’m 41 and still hoping for my third but no such luck yet. Take care woman.
7:37 am on March 31st, 2007 18
Fuyoh!
So now got baby blogger coming to join us?
Quite fun mah~
7:53 am on March 31st, 2007 19
Congratulations Lilian.. wah now whatever you want ATM has to give LOL even mee rebus at 3 a.m. LOL
No worries lah , many of my friends have kids late some even at 51. Her daughter and the granddaughter same age
8:32 am on March 31st, 2007 20
Congratulations Lilian. May you be blessed with a smooth uneventful pregnancy, and also blessed with a healthy child, girl or boy.
Again, congratulations to you and husband, and to all your sons as well.
*thinks* Lilian is seeing pink…vaio led the way, cute pink cheeks on the way, pretty pink bodysuits and dresses to follow.
Enjoy and have fun Lilian. Take extra special care of both you and baby.
9:25 am on March 31st, 2007 21
Dont know much about pregnancy but I will be your clown when u need to laff, your punching bag when u need to release tension and I am all ears when you need to talk.
*In case others (some woman) speculate about our friendship, we are just good online friends. I am in Melaka and she is in Penang. The ironic thing is we never get to meet before ( but then again, like we care what they think lah hor)*
Ah Lian, take good care of yourself. Laff at my Ron somemore, sendiri kena. Bwahahahaha!
10:14 am on March 31st, 2007 22
Could it be your pink fetish was a sign of this to come
May God bless you and your family in abundance, Lilian, and see you through in every way!
10:17 am on March 31st, 2007 23
HAIYOOOHHHH!!!
10:19 am on March 31st, 2007 24
How come so big news, now oni I know wan?????
10:42 am on March 31st, 2007 25
CONGRATSSS.. u got our support.
10:45 am on March 31st, 2007 26
I’m so so so happy for you till i have tears in my eyes, i’m in my first pregnancy and i read your ‘mymomsbest’ forum. I dunno why, i just feel so excited over this! You must take very good care. 6xmom.
11:07 am on March 31st, 2007 27
Lilian, I am so happy for you… Really… I am sure a lot of people will support you dear.. Cause I know I am… Congratulations to you… and your hubby..
11:08 am on March 31st, 2007 28
Congrats…. give birth at this age ain’t dangerous, as you’ve records of 5x already. During this period, you ought to be happy, cheerful, joyful so that your child is a happy baby when born.
You shld be happy and grateful for what you’ve have, as some people are praying to have one unfortunately God is not answering her prayer… Probably he over heard or he’s too busy to attend her prayer.
So, all of us, everyone in this cyberworld are happy for you and truely understand your ‘mood swings’….
I guess, we’ll be expecting less write ups from you when your tummy is growing bigger…
11:20 am on March 31st, 2007 29
OMFG SO COOLS!!!! GIRL GIRL GIRL GIRL!! hahahaha congrats
11:29 am on March 31st, 2007 30
wow !! congratulations !!!
if you are craving for kaya , or cakes hor ..then just sms me huh ? even durian also can but only the paste. my second one cheah pok pok is damn cheeky and pat por / talkative one. But really fun to have a little doll at home for you to design hair style for them.
By the way , your kopi Pak Ali powder still left anymore at home ? Malaysia Boleh !! Yahoo !!
11:30 am on March 31st, 2007 31
FINALLY there’s a logical explanation to how things have been lately, I was beginning to be a little bit afraid of/for you for awhile there.
Anyho, this is great news. Maybe all those pink fetish is a coming sign of the great leader who’s going to rule over the house of Loh
Hope this is contagious, maybe it will rub on me.
11:42 am on March 31st, 2007 32
Kong Hei Kong Hei!!! I am so happy to hear that when Lawrence first told me about it. If get a girl, sure become diamond in the family liau. Crave for asam???? Let me know
11:42 am on March 31st, 2007 33
hehhehehehehe
11:48 am on March 31st, 2007 34
Oh my God! Congrats Lilian ! Make sure u sleep well and take care of your health,don’t stay too late at nite hor ! I’ll keep you in my prayer!
11:48 am on March 31st, 2007 35
Congrats!! So happy for you. Been a silent reader for a while now. Don’t worry about ppl laughing at you. Why would they? My youngest bro is 10 yrs old this year making me 13 years his senior. Its gonna be fine. Think about the happiness this small lil bub will bring to u & ur family!
11:49 am on March 31st, 2007 36
Congrats Lilian!
WOW!! Looks like we gonna have another hot blogger in future!
Our family and I wishes you all the best as we are sure that at 43…no problemo! Your ATM must be very proud!!
Cheers and Regards,
11:58 am on March 31st, 2007 37
I know you don’t want to be congratulated but I’m still gonna congratulate you! =) Hope everything goes smoothly. My mother was pregnant at that age too. twice! But.. it was a very terrible time for us. Just look after yourself okay? Be careful. Don’t carry heavy stuff and all. Good luck and take care!
12:00 pm on March 31st, 2007 38
I think congrats are in order.
- MENJ
12:09 pm on March 31st, 2007 39
Hugs and kisses
12:24 pm on March 31st, 2007 40
Hi Mom,
dont worry la,with gods grce,mercy and guidance you will be fine,you are held in his hands and he will see you thru this pregnancy!!
My sister is 11 years younger then me and mum got pregnant around your age as well and she pulled thru am sure you are able toas well!!
Take Care and God Bless!!
12:28 pm on March 31st, 2007 41
wow…great news indeed…and yeah , i can understand the mood swings too..aww….congrats..*hugss*
12:28 pm on March 31st, 2007 42
Hi, Lilian. Congrat!! Don’t worry too much! Just take more rest and eat well. Even Lin Qing Xia gave her 2nd birth at 46 yrs old! Why worry?
Btw, my name is called Lee Lian too! Take care ya…
12:31 pm on March 31st, 2007 43
[...] Lilian tua pak tor liao! Lilian oh Lilian, Tell what happen, How come all of a sudden, Tell me got extra burden. [...]
12:37 pm on March 31st, 2007 44
I’m gonna register http://www.6xmom.com and squat!!
12:43 pm on March 31st, 2007 45
Hi there, it’s a good news.I’m so surprised to hear the news… Anyway, do rest more ok…take good care…
12:44 pm on March 31st, 2007 46
congrats Lilian!! and hang in there mommah!
12:47 pm on March 31st, 2007 47
Congratulations!! Your news gives me renewed hope for myself.
12:48 pm on March 31st, 2007 48
I got shocked when I saw it in my WP dashboard. -.-” Hopefully everything goes well.
12:51 pm on March 31st, 2007 49
happy happy 6xmom on the way!
it’s going to be a ’sui cha bor’ one day hehe
take cares and good luck =)
12:56 pm on March 31st, 2007 50
siXmom. *counts with one hand* EH not enough fingers!
*counts with two hands*
wahh.. alot leh… haha.. congrats!!!
1:14 pm on March 31st, 2007 51
Congratsssssss Lilian!
So happy for you. Wish you a speedy pregnancy.
Aim for a girl hor.
1:20 pm on March 31st, 2007 52
Oooo… 6Xmom,
i remember many years ago my 18 yr old friend embarassingly announced that his 50 yr old mother is pregnant and he is going to have a baby brother 18yrs younger than him. he keep on saying how shy and shameful it is to face his friend. none of us friends jokes about it. is God’s will to add another member to his family.
anyway Lilian, do be extra careful. you are little too old to be a preggo. i am sure you know very well how to handle.
God bless
1:27 pm on March 31st, 2007 53
huang huang huang… you will be fine ler e-kaima .. u will be fine.. no anxiety no second doubts ok..
must be a girl this time!! may god be with you always.
2:47 pm on March 31st, 2007 54
Wao. Congrats.
3:31 pm on March 31st, 2007 55
congrats! u have to rest more, blog less and don’t stay up too late… & God bless
3:49 pm on March 31st, 2007 56
Lilian,
Congratulations indeed on your upcoming baby.
It’s always a joy to have a new addition to your family.
3:51 pm on March 31st, 2007 57
Congrats! May god bless you!
4:25 pm on March 31st, 2007 58
thanks for sharing. maybe the pink laptop and all that stuff was a sign eh?
5:34 pm on March 31st, 2007 59
Congrats Aunt Lilian!! I guess this runs in the family (genetic). My mom gave birth to Desmond at the age of 43 too!!
5:42 pm on March 31st, 2007 60
woah mch 60 comments?!!!! i also never have 60 comments b4!!!!
6:32 pm on March 31st, 2007 61
*SQUEALS!!!*
CONGRATS Lilian!!! What a blessing!! *SQUEALS AGAIN*
(psst…but i thot u ikat oredi? how come still can pregnant one?)
6:48 pm on March 31st, 2007 62
it is indeed a joyous news! i wish u well & pray for smooth sailing..this is exciting indeed, like i’m pregnant lidat!
7:03 pm on March 31st, 2007 63
顺产=自然平安地生下å©å。
7:14 pm on March 31st, 2007 64
wooooahhhhh Woooaaaahhhh WoaaaaaaHHH WOOOOAAAAHHHHHHH…..
first question in my mind…. 43 and still hot at it eh?
….
jokes aside… congrats… and may God grant you a safe and smooth pregnancy, sincerely (not a sarcastic comment).
7:17 pm on March 31st, 2007 65
5xmom,
Grats on the GOOD news. You shouldn’t worry so, all of us are rooting for you and we know you can get through this…eeeps!! I’m sooooooo excited for you o_o” don’t worry k!! My grandma had like…-counts- 12 kids with 2 who went in between 12 of them. My youngest uncle is 10 years older than me leh
she’s 79 liao means hah she got him when she was 49!
>_> actually she had 3 kids after 40, so you see ah, it’s normal ^^ so yea, grats!!
7:35 pm on March 31st, 2007 66
Congrats ! Wishing you all the best. And do take care.
8:35 pm on March 31st, 2007 67
everything happens for a reason.God must have his reasons.Just take it as it is.A child is a gift. No one will laugh.Is really a good news that another life is to the world soon coming soon.:)..
8:56 pm on March 31st, 2007 68
Congrates! At first I thought that this post is an April Fool prank.. however the more I read, the more I do believe that this 5x mom is wu ngia tiok lottery ! wa.. hua he hua he! Kiong he Kiong He! Chiang! Chiang !Chiang!Time to celebrate a new life!
P/S: Auntie Lilian… there are medical reports on women who gave brith at their sixties.. no worries.. YOU STILL YOUNG la~ kekeke.. Nvy u and ur ATM , so ” en ai”..
10:49 pm on March 31st, 2007 69
congratulations anyway…and happy april fool’s day~
10:54 pm on March 31st, 2007 70
Congratulation !!! Congratulation !!!
11:07 pm on March 31st, 2007 71
congratulation!!
it’s a god gift to you.
and hopefully its a girl since u mentioned it.
But sometimes, my friends always pull the gun out.
11:08 pm on March 31st, 2007 72
First of all, i’m here to congratulate Aunty for the gift of GOD but but i hope you will not burst the news 2mrow that you’ve “got” us all……coz it’s an April Fool !!!
Sad or happy, you still live so why not choose to face it with cheers & pleasures instead. Do take good care!
11:40 pm on March 31st, 2007 73
OOOOOHHHH, huge news.
I was thinking “is she having another baby…?” when I saw the title and woohoo, I got it right!
Congratulations
11:40 pm on March 31st, 2007 74
WUAH….I tell you guys lah, I whole day went out to Queensbay mall and Gurney Plaza. I thot by 3rd or 4th comments, sure got ppl say, chey….bluff wan. Manatau, skali come back see so many comments. And even my own sister also got pranked. Soli hor, I wanted to reveal tomorrow on April Fools but I damn guilty for lying so I posted the next post.
Anyway, thanks to every single one of you. I am so, so touched with these kind thoughts. I learnt a lesson – That I shall treasure of all you guys even more for the friendships, concerns and kindness. *makes mental to make my blog even more entertaining*
3:55 am on April 1st, 2007 75
***middle finger …
5:58 pm on April 1st, 2007 76
[...] already. Also no one fools me for don’t know how many years already. However, was fooled by Lilian!! Eh.. But doesn’t count ok? Hahaha… Coz it’s not on 1st April, it’s [...]
7:38 pm on April 1st, 2007 77
[...] this post 5xmom, no more from 5xmom through my Google reader yesterday. But recently, I had been getting nauseous, giddy [...]
10:59 pm on April 1st, 2007 78
Wow! Hi Lilian! Just wanna wish you congratulations and I’m happy for you. My mom had me when she was 41 and I was fine. Take good care of yourself and pray to God for your health and the baby’s. =D
9:08 am on April 2nd, 2007 79
wahahaha… i was about to leave a comment to congrats you and ask you to take care … manatau !! It’s an April Fool’s Joke !! wahahaha…
11:51 pm on April 2nd, 2007 80
Aiya, I’m so happy for u when I get to know from my colleagues that u are pregnant. See see is a April Fools jokes