Heh, I caught your attention didn’t I? How many of you out there do this all the time? Maybe not specifically MSN but Yahoo, AIM, Google talk, IRC or whatever instant messaging services?
So many things that we wouldn’t have dare uttered in real life can easily flushed out in that few emoticons and words. It is real easy to get lost in that kind of stuffs if you are a witty person. Add chemistry to it and wham, fireworks erupt. I can do it till 3-4 am sometimes. Not the romantic kind but still on a very special level.
Many marriages were based on this. Yet, many marriages failed because of this too. Well, if one is single and available, there is nothing wrong with it at all. But often, things don’t always go by the rule.
Anyway, who am I to preach, right? Whether you have been indulging in these sort of imaginary relationship or not, it is none of my business. But recently, I found someone on MSN. Someone new. And he and I had been messaging each other.
Now, I know all of you will be sitting up straight.
My haters will be sneering……
My relatives will be worrying….
People will be wondering…
WTF, didn’t 5xmom said her sons read her blog?
Her sons’ friends read her blog?
Her church members, the holy-holy people read it too?
My Chao Ah Beng probably says…”Oi, you got take medicine yet or not?”
My close buddies will be screaming, “LILIAN, are you out of your mind? Are you confessing your crush on someone?”
Eheh, you are all wrong.
Just today, I told Samm on MSN.
Me : I ttyl. Gotta go ‘teh’ now
Samm : Lucky you. Mine is in the opis.
Me : Yeah, so is mine. I can ‘teh’ on MSN too.
Yes, my dear hubby just got to know MSN and I am the only one on his MSN. Oh yeah, besides that he has #1 and #2 sons MSN as well. We have four PCs at home and the other day, all of us were on MSN, discussing where to go for dinner and where to go for holiday. We were all in different rooms, you see. It is call family bonding.
And yeah, I can flirt all I want ‘cos this is one contact that I want to ignite the romance with. This is one that I can safely tell him I love him. I can nudge him when I am bored and I know he wouldn’t scold me ‘cilaka, people gotta work wan you know?’. This is one which I can call all sorts of nicknames.
However, that said, I am thankful that I have a few who is close enough to tell me, “Oi, I go pangsai first, brb”. Or those that will tell me what they eat for lunch, right down to the baked beans and eggs or those who knows when to MSN me when they can sense when I am feeling down through the entries on my blog. Or not to disturb me when they know I am busy writing paid posts to make a living. I love you all too.
Moral of the story? Don’t listen to too many love songs on your new K800i. You can get mindfucked and blabber stuffs like these. And yeah, online affair is nasty, stay away from it. Know when to remain friends, draw the line and know what is betrayal.
Faster, faster, confess, you got or not ah?