It has come to my attention that someone is copying posts from other bloggers and make some changes to her own and passed it as original.
Well, you know who you are. I coached you because I took pity on you. Blardy hell, this is another one of those things that come right smack back on me when I try to be kind to people. I taught you how to earn money but you have gone too smart.
You pissed me off and if not for your little baby, I would have shamed you in my blog, report you to the company concerned and get you booted out. Don’t mess with me because I can be very vile when people took my kindness and gave themselves a bad name instead. This indirectly gave me a bad name.
I have all the proofs and the screenshots of how you steal people’s content and passed it as yours. All of us worked our brains off to get things done the moral and correct way. We don’t take things from another mom and claim it as ours. Where is your integrity? Do you feel happy taking money that you earned through cheating? Do you dare to spend that money on your child and feel happy about it?
To those moms whom you feel she has fleeced off your content, do the right thing. Take the screenshot and mail it to the company. Otherwise, it won’t stop. I have proof of three blogs which she took the content from. I am not going to do the dirty job now but I may if this goes on. And the repercussion is great. Even those whom had been fleeced may get the bad name. So, do it first. Get people who steal contents out of the system. It helps us all in the long run.
Like I said earlier, to be a good blogger, you have to be part of the loop. One wrong move and you can cause the whole blogsphere to shun you. And it is no fun being a blogger with no supporters. Remember that the blogsphere is very close knitted and everybody knows everybody. And anyone who pissed off 5xmom is asking for it.
Let me count the number of things I had helped you:
1) I helped you got through breastfeeding with my FREE forum
2) I helped you deal with a troubled marriage
3) I taught you how to start to earn money, from applying for a debit card to signing up to almost everything
4) I gave you motivation to stand on your feet as a woman and not some spineless woman whose husband will not give permission for you to spend just RM200 to get your domain, will not lend you his credit card to activate your PayPal
5) Most of all, I gave you a chance to feel proud as a person
Then, what do I get? Not even a cent to donate to the Mothering Mothers project. It is only RM20 for goodness sake! I provided the forum for free and all I expect is this once a year participation, which also won’t benefit MMB as group. Just a little donation to cheer up the moms for you to them.
In other words - I get a big smack for being kind. Fuck.
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Since you all so 8poh/koong, here is the lead to the person.
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3:26 pm on May 9th, 2007 1
WUAH! FIRST ONE!
SIZZZZZLLLEEEEE
PEDAS! OUCh!
3:30 pm on May 9th, 2007 2
who is that? can i become your toudai too? (brings yellow paper, chicken and chinese tea just in case)
3:31 pm on May 9th, 2007 3
Hi Lil, thanks for bring this up! But I wonder if she knows she’s in trouble by now???
3:33 pm on May 9th, 2007 4
Sorry to hear ur bad experience, aunti. Hope it doesn’t put u off from helping others in the future. Always enjoy reading ur oliginal post. Take care.
3:34 pm on May 9th, 2007 5
Go tell that to tech bloggers…hahahahaha!
3:35 pm on May 9th, 2007 6
Just like my warning letters to my staff. By my endings got no “FUCK”. Tiu!
People can stoop so low one ar? Sigh………*copy and paste bloggers*
3:36 pm on May 9th, 2007 7
Wowee… yeah, tell her!
3:39 pm on May 9th, 2007 8
3:30pm very good traffic hor. Must be tea time. *LOL*
3:44 pm on May 9th, 2007 9
I’m quiet person, but this one..I kenot tahan and jump out to support u..I felt the same!
3:47 pm on May 9th, 2007 10
oh boy.. i know that shitty feeling..
3:52 pm on May 9th, 2007 11
I hope she knew… I feel sorry for those mommies whose posts were being copied by her.
3:53 pm on May 9th, 2007 12
i know the person too…..this is really bad lah…the ones affected, must go *chun pou* the story to PPP let this idiot suffer
3:54 pm on May 9th, 2007 13
but ar, if she’s reported, she’ll get banned from PPP!
4:00 pm on May 9th, 2007 14
Just report her lah.. like you said, Lilian, we work our brains off trying to think of what to say in our posts, and these kinds of people can just simply our posts and get away with it? Hellz no!
4:00 pm on May 9th, 2007 15
shannonC - Well, I don’t know about that.
jazzmint - I am not the one getting fleeced but I was responsible for guiding her so it sucks.
angeleyes - Ya, even if it is for nothing, it is bad. This one is to make money. Lagi cialat.
ahpek - Like kena sodmomised like that, you mean? Hahaha.
msaufong - So many blogs kena copied. Dahsyat.
ahbeng - No lah, cos the word FUCK. It rhymes with FATT. So mah lots of business lor.
4:05 pm on May 9th, 2007 16
sue - I hope she reads and understands.
terence - Chey, add in FUCK lah, next time. To your bosses as well. See what happened.
gallivanter - Hahaha, true.
prometuez - I am a sucker, always kena until skin become rubber liao.
shoppingmum - LOL, most probably she won’t know it is her!
budokid - Black dog’s blood leh?
sasha - How come you first ah?
4:06 pm on May 9th, 2007 17
JACQ - If it is mine, I would be banging at the door of the CEO and Customer Love.
4:07 pm on May 9th, 2007 18
Don’t know what to say. Want to keep my mouth shut…. but this post hor…. very SHARP the tone… I sked sked
4:12 pm on May 9th, 2007 19
more impressed by how you helped her actually. still good for you, can’t really control the outcome right?
4:26 pm on May 9th, 2007 20
I was also shocked when I found out about this before you posted it. I quickly did a scan through to see if any of my posts had been copied. Worse still, her blog is not categorized so I could not even filter by PPP posts…..
4:27 pm on May 9th, 2007 21
5xMom, good of you to warn that person. So easy to make money meh, at leastlah put it some effort other than copy from people
4:46 pm on May 9th, 2007 22
(faster faster sembelih black dog….)oh btw….imitation is the greatest form of flattery ma…. tech blogs copy lagi worse….
5:14 pm on May 9th, 2007 23
budokid - That’s not the case wor. Tech bloggers need the publicity to spread the tech. This one, terang terang use other’s post to make money for themselves. So it is theft.
immoms - I doubt she feels anything oso. I just wanna rant about it.
giddy tigers - Try Copyscape and you can pick up plagiarised stuffs.
mrsb - Yeah, still one must get the message across.
dargonmummy - Like that baru got entertaining mah. Hahaha.
5:33 pm on May 9th, 2007 24
I am speechless at this moment..
i know who she is…sigh..
“Dear… everybody tend to forgive u.. can u pls come out to apologise? before it too late??…”..
a chance… the only chance…
i am real speechless…sigh..
5:35 pm on May 9th, 2007 25
Cool down… cool down… angry too much age faster… not worth it to waste your youth to someone like this… hehe
5:57 pm on May 9th, 2007 26
hao - U dun simply komen, can? Dun try to act smart ok? Who are you to tell me what to feel wor?
6:26 pm on May 9th, 2007 27
who is that ?
6:39 pm on May 9th, 2007 28
Wah like tat also can kah? I have to be hati-hati liau. You know lar afterall, I am still a baby mah. Got lots of things to learn lagi. Thanks for reminding me.
6:54 pm on May 9th, 2007 29
erina - Wuah…now I become the chao lang cos she said she so innocent, go visit ppl blog only. Oso kena.
KJ - I put in a link already. That will lead to the person concerned’s blog.
7:01 pm on May 9th, 2007 30
Lilian..I am so sad. How come she get to join your forum..and I don’t? I applied (last week) and I’m still waiting for the administrator to activate my account.
*sobs*
Anyway…. you’re right. When I write my PPP, I rack my brains to write a good one..even if it’s a USD5.00 one. So..if someone were to plagerise .. I’d tumbuk the fella! Blogs are public…but don’t be stupid la…don’t be lazy la..don’t copy!!!
7:06 pm on May 9th, 2007 31
mott - LOL, what kinky name you used lah? I hardly approve new members liao unless I know their name. Hahaha too many spammers. Gimme the name u use, i sikalang activate it.
And hor, you got see how she replied to shoppingmum? And the so called apology on her blog. Now, it become we are the aggressors and she is the victim wor. Niamah, I spent so many emails and time, slowly guide her and now when ppl complain, I must be the tai kar jeh and take the responsibility and speak up mah. If not I become the devil advocate, encouraging ppl to do dirty dealings.
7:15 pm on May 9th, 2007 32
Galivanter - dun la… Got many tech bloggers who actually spend time testing everything we write about k
Not all of us are copy pasters
7:19 pm on May 9th, 2007 33
Wahhhh, your title scare me. I though it is me, no I didn’t kill the president. .. (squat down and burrow head)
I though translation also kena, and wait, I did credit 5xmom…
phews….
7:38 pm on May 9th, 2007 34
At last she confess, she even show me which post (non-paid) she copied 2 days ago. My blog so popular for her to copied. Pls I also write paid and non paid post very hard, don’t do this to me, ok? I’m too kind enough to hate a person. Don’t make me do that.
7:58 pm on May 9th, 2007 35
Hi 5xmom,
I’m amazed with what you have done for her. You are one of the most sincere and helpful person that I ever know online. ..
I doubt myself have done similiar things so far..
Although this might not be the right post, but it is still a inspiring post and know you better..
8:01 pm on May 9th, 2007 36
lilian…not only she likes to copy post, she also like to copy from chats!!!
“They have been squeezing their brain juices to write the posts and I don’t know if I have did copy them”
i spoke to her today on MSN and the above was what I wrote in my msn and she even can use this to write her post…..wah piang……I wanna pengsan jorrr…
8:50 pm on May 9th, 2007 37
emm.. i think.. is enough ledy..
kinda hurt..
pls give her a chance.. and stop the war ledy..
tks..
peace.. we love peace.
what a pity… enough is enough
8:55 pm on May 9th, 2007 38
me pour chinese tea for jie jie lilian …
pls drink and don’t be angry ok?
hugs hugs
8:56 pm on May 9th, 2007 39
Lilian, I’m not trying to act smart nor someone to tell you what to feel. I know you’re frustrated, but you can’t control other human on what they’re doing right? I just hope that you don’t get too angry over this kind of person, just let them rot to hell. I don’t think she’ll succeed in her life too if she can do thing like this. Sorry if I offended you.
9:39 pm on May 9th, 2007 40
Hmm… but I got my laughs and rants of the day from 5Xmom.
Ignore crack version.
10:12 pm on May 9th, 2007 41
whoah …
O_o”
10:34 pm on May 9th, 2007 42
like that also can??? According to other links that I found after clicking on the link you gave, she even copies tags?? -.-
Anyway,after this incident, will you stop helping people when it comes to writing about paid post? Hee, was thinking of asking for your advice or something since I wanted to try this out. Mana tau I can afford my very own Sony-Cyber Shot T100 from that. Besides I am finishing my STPM end of this year. Looking for chances to earn more money apart from working part time.
11:05 pm on May 9th, 2007 43
ahbu - Sony T100! My fren Samm got a red one. See my digitalphoto, very chio. Ask lah, I always very pat wan. Just check out my Make Money blog, got tips.
11:38 pm on May 9th, 2007 44
what’s the word? plagiarism issit? very tactful of you not to disclose her here, i am sure she feels the bite from this post…
12:15 am on May 10th, 2007 45
Wah…1st time see Lilian so “garang” but I guessed she’s right about this copycat thing. I was also under someone’s suspicion before…haha…right AP?? But I proved him wrong. Anyway, blogging is fun but if it’s under the expense of others to gain more traffics or worst gain more money…it’s definitely a NO NO.
I would like to advise this person to step forward to give Lilian a public apology, since she was the one who has guided you from rags to riches. She won’t hang you or even report you to the authorities. If she has the intention of doing so, she would have done that in her 1st paragraph here. We are human and human makes mistakes. If mistakes are rectified at the beginning stage, relationships won’t be that sour later on. So be brave and come forward to apologize. It will avoid worst consequences in near future…
12:24 am on May 10th, 2007 46
5xmom you got me on a wild goose chase! i blur blur donno wat you all talking about, and kaypoh go to shoppingmum’s blog but cannot open for the first 3 minutes. SUSPENS only! but now i know siapa… i can sleep already
I do notice though, that the grammar she used on her paid posts and her personal ones are different. anyway, hope she can own up to mistakes if guilty, as it seems like in the blog she’s done no wrong.
nite nite! eeerrr… morning
12:35 am on May 10th, 2007 47
now… i feel like knowing who she is… hehe
12:44 am on May 10th, 2007 48
ahhh…. now i see who she is..!!
10:01 am on May 10th, 2007 49
>Really… if nobody ever tell me.. how would I know my mistake
hmm i think in primary school also, u cannot copy in tests, right? liddat also dunno?
1:07 pm on May 10th, 2007 50
can i oso complain abt the ah soh supporter? always say pity u pity u wan? very the irritating neh!!!
2:08 pm on May 10th, 2007 51
sooi2 - Hahahaha, I know what you mean. That’s why I dare not come back to my own comment. Sked I spray bullets lagi. BTW, I brought up the issue, if you know what I mean.
4:49 pm on May 10th, 2007 52
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5:09 pm on May 10th, 2007 53
Lilian,
this kinda VERY BIG issue of the year in blogsphere. i (well my singapore friend actually from a cupcakes group in flickr) faced the same problem recently. i found-out a local cupcake makers copied Trish’ design and proudly baked about 1000 pcs for a reality show. the best thing is she was so happy to receive many compliments from people, wz the guts never put a single credit for Trish. i warned her in her comment box (2nd comment). unfortunately she delete my comment. she even blocked my ip address. thus i email her to warn her again, with cc to Trish and many other forum friends, not forgetting those people who left compliments to her. i also posted something on both of my blog, hope that she understood. if not, she will get it from us.
walaweii!!!….
what say you Lilian?
regards,
kuE!
10:02 pm on May 10th, 2007 54
Oh dear… sigh… that happens quite often… and I wonder how they could sleep @ night…
10:59 pm on May 10th, 2007 55
she is really silly to do such a stupid thing! she’ll be very cham now….everyone is pointing fingers at her…..she must be warned….if she apologises and stops her stupid act, then i think we can still give her a second chance…..wat do u think, lilian?
1:15 am on May 11th, 2007 56
kuE - You leave yr url silap kah? hahaha, I get Bible site. But I saw the cakes, yalah, sebijik, semacam.
7:40 am on May 11th, 2007 57
wakakaaa… i spelt blogspot wrongly! lol…
btw should we tiew the lady?
10:02 am on May 11th, 2007 58
“And it is no fun being a blogger with no supporters.”
Hi, not trying to offend you, also not trying to act smart here too , since you have many supporters
, but i just want to let u know (in a kind way) , there are some bloggers who don’t need supporters and still find it fun.
Plagiarize is BAD! hopefully they stop it sooner. …. being popular is just… like HOLLYWOOD stars. Foreseeable …. pictures, words, stories being copied, pirated. Although it is illegally wrong, still many people doing it ,
feel sorry and good luck!
8:41 pm on May 11th, 2007 59
ah yes, no more pix of u (her, i mean) in sarung only, heavily made-up face, wedding photo from a decade ago and favourite ah beng singer…and be gone with the corny story of ur breastfed husband, bah!
11:26 pm on May 11th, 2007 60
She had her lesson learnt I guess… Thanks lilian for helping everyone with your most kind heart.
I specially appreciate the forum. 
It helped me through the first few month of “painful” breastfeeding journey.