I am going to say this because as a woman, I know it is pure bullshit that a woman can forgive her husband that easily. If the husband has been out screwing other woman, there is no way she can forgive that easily. What more if the woman is much prettier, younger, sexier, skillful, errm…tighter maybe? and all that she is not?
And the only reasons I can think of are :
1) There is no other more dignified way to solve the matter so she has to take the heroic matriarch way. If she walks out, she will be nothing but a piece of old hag, past her expiry. People have very little sympathy for the wives, usually. That’s how biased the world is, women. We are at the losing end all the time.
2) There is a lot of money, title, comfortable lifestyle, properties, millions of ringgit in some joint-account etc etc at stake so it is the smartest way out. Grit the teeth and grin it through. Oh ya, I forgot, the possibility of becoming a President one day. OTherwise, you think it is possible for Hilary Clinton to love Bill Clinton that blindly?
Bullshit! A woman cannot love a man that much to say, “It doesn’t matter that he screwed around. I love him unconditionally.” Kanasai, where got woman so dumb wan?
Sadly, that’s how the world is. Wives get cheated all the time. They cannot do much because sometimes, their kids are too young and they do not want to deny them of a normal family. So, they suffer silently. At other times, they are too insecure to live life as a single person, without the spouse. So, they leech on.
I don’t know about others. But if I am in that kind of position, I think I will :
a) Do what Lim Teng Chooi said to Tanya Chew. You know….the Just Follow Law where Phua Chu Kang said, “I will chop you, eat you and shit you like the piece of shit that you are.”
b) Slowly poison the spouse with some arsenic or whatever untraceable toxic stuffs so that I can kill without any trace. Meantime, I will make sure that all the properties are transferred to my name or at least my children’s names.
c) Pray to whatever gods that I pray (please for a moment, forget the real world can?) and put some curses so that he will slowly suffers some unbearable itch down there which cannot be cured with anti-histamines and need to scratch till the whole kukujiao drops off and the balls leak.
But my dear friends, these wives are lucky. Because the husbands will turn into a new leaf and probably pamper her like what she would have deserved (in the first place). It just needs a few screws to get him to be like that. Diamonds, holidays, expensive cars, a few condos in her name, club memberships, shopping trips etc etc. So, enjoy lah, what choice do you have?
And nayyyyy, no one can convince me that there is such a thing as a wife who can forgives. Nay….I don’t believe. It is not forgive. It is ‘boh pien’.
Moral of the story : Women, regardless of their age, ought to place their ownselves ahead of others. Keep your self value, take care of your beauty, remember your charm (what attracts your husband to you in the first place) and maintain that kind of communication with him all the time. Otherwise, too late liao, you die also boh lor eong lor. (useless) So go learn to ‘teh’ lah. Don’t know how? Ask The 5xmom. Muahahahar…