Comments on: All these wives forgive cheating husbands are pure bullshits http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/01/02/all-these-wives-forgive-cheating-husbands-are-pure-bullshits/ Life, Lies, Sex, Humor, Politics of a Malaysian blogger Mon, 06 Feb 2012 12:27:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Lilian http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/01/02/all-these-wives-forgive-cheating-husbands-are-pure-bullshits/comment-page-1/#comment-84753 Lilian Thu, 03 Jan 2008 03:39:41 +0000 http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/01/02/all-these-wives-forgive-cheating-husbands-are-pure-bullshits/#comment-84753 <strong>Blogowner says : What's the matter with you? Did I say the DIVORCE word? Did anyone says that? Chill lah, we are only talking 'what if we are in the wife' shoes. This is not the gospel truth and no one is being asked to take a stand. You are getting on my nerves with all these facts of life. Don't try to teach me what life is ok? If you want to apply what happens in your own life, then, say it. Don't try to tell US. You get what I mean? You want to change all the whatever kata-nama and tell us exactly what happen to your OWN life, then, say so. Otherwise, don't teach me stupid things like these. I know better than you. I deal with women who really were in situations like that. Niamah, you got time to write so long comment and keep arguing with me, then go start your own blog lah. Nah, here's the URL, 3-steps only. http://www.blogger.com/ I have made it clear, I said normal program resumes. Respect that. Who fcuk cares what happened to CSL. By now, the whole Malaysian women know he is one dead boring lover. I just had a good laugh with my girlfriends over what we saw. DEAD.....BORING. The wife must be saying " Like dis one, I go find one AYam for him better lah."</strong> Blogowner says : What’s the matter with you? Did I say the DIVORCE word? Did anyone says that? Chill lah, we are only talking ‘what if we are in the wife’ shoes. This is not the gospel truth and no one is being asked to take a stand. You are getting on my nerves with all these facts of life. Don’t try to teach me what life is ok? If you want to apply what happens in your own life, then, say it. Don’t try to tell US. You get what I mean? You want to change all the whatever kata-nama and tell us exactly what happen to your OWN life, then, say so. Otherwise, don’t teach me stupid things like these. I know better than you. I deal with women who really were in situations like that. Niamah, you got time to write so long comment and keep arguing with me, then go start your own blog lah. Nah, here’s the URL, 3-steps only. http://www.blogger.com/

I have made it clear, I said normal program resumes. Respect that. Who fcuk cares what happened to CSL. By now, the whole Malaysian women know he is one dead boring lover. I just had a good laugh with my girlfriends over what we saw. DEAD…..BORING. The wife must be saying ” Like dis one, I go find one AYam for him better lah.”

]]> By: Lau char bor http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/01/02/all-these-wives-forgive-cheating-husbands-are-pure-bullshits/comment-page-1/#comment-84745 Lau char bor Thu, 03 Jan 2008 01:41:28 +0000 http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/01/02/all-these-wives-forgive-cheating-husbands-are-pure-bullshits/#comment-84745 Lilian, I didnt say CSL is GOD fearing. I only implied that everything happen for a reason and it's part of GOD's great plan. He is afterall, the Alpha and the Omega... As for women who can forgive their spouse after such a big showdown, well, before we all go and say all those hitchcock acts of cutting and frying the KKJ, please let's all get real here for a minute. How many of us have actually gone through the whole mumbo-jumbo of being cheated on?! I have and I survived and NO, I didnt leave my spouse and I didnt do any of those things which by the way, is a CRIME.. can go Jail and the judge will not care if your husband cheated on you. THAT IS A FACT! Another fact is that we all live in the REAL World which, all the time contradicts the Ideal world notion that we all have in our pretty little heads. IDEAL world is where all men are GOD fearing. Man only loves 1 woman and he will not even blink an eye and look if Eva Mendez walks pass naked. REAL world spells, some men DO cheat on their spouse no matter how GOD fearing they are. To most men, Love and sex are two different things, they will ogle and fantasize about having hot, lurid sex if they so much as see Eva Mendez's panty on TV! So, the sooner we, the women kind, learn to accept that REAL world is not IDEAL and vice-versa, it will save us lots of heartache. Say what you like and must but the fact remains is that we have to survive in the REAL world with minimum pain and humps& bumps to our soul! So, we either change our thinking or we can continue to cry buckets when shit happens! Lastly, if we women want to be respected, we better start to behave like we can comprehend and overcome challenges in a civil manner.. All these cut and fry KKJ sure spells barbaric or is it just all talk and no action? Both spells disaster as to how we women thinks! To men, talking in such fashion only spells CRAZY! Now you know why most men treat women in such shitty fashion!? Another thing, you think divorce is a simple thing ah.. pack bag, lari the children away and divorce is like what we see in movies ah!?? GET REAL la... you lari the kids and if he is mean, he makes a police report on you for kidnapping the kids and you had it! Divorce cost a bomb just to ensure you get what you have put in financially to the marriage. Dont even think of wanting to have half of his assets. If yes, you better have tonnes of concrete proof that you have contributed to his success of acquiring his assets, if not, the judge will look at you like you are a money grabbing bitch and give you a good lecture on how to be a human being and award you NOTHING! YUP.. i see this day in day out! Divorce is tedious, it will drain you financially, emotionally and mentally. Not many women come out of a divorce stronger and financially comfortable. Most come out broken in spirit and soul.. and of course financially! THIS IS THE REAL World! Lilian,

I didnt say CSL is GOD fearing. I only implied that everything happen for a reason and it’s part of GOD’s great plan. He is afterall, the Alpha and the Omega…

As for women who can forgive their spouse after such a big showdown, well, before we all go and say all those hitchcock acts of cutting and frying the KKJ, please let’s all get real here for a minute. How many of us have actually gone through the whole mumbo-jumbo of being cheated on?! I have and I survived and NO, I didnt leave my spouse and I didnt do any of those things which by the way, is a CRIME.. can go Jail and the judge will not care if your husband cheated on you. THAT IS A FACT!

Another fact is that we all live in the REAL World which, all the time contradicts the Ideal world notion that we all have in our pretty little heads. IDEAL world is where all men are GOD fearing. Man only loves 1 woman and he will not even blink an eye and look if Eva Mendez walks pass naked. REAL world spells, some men DO cheat on their spouse no matter how GOD fearing they are. To most men, Love and sex are two different things, they will ogle and fantasize about having hot, lurid sex if they so much as see Eva Mendez’s panty on TV! So, the sooner we, the women kind, learn to accept that REAL world is not IDEAL and vice-versa, it will save us lots of heartache. Say what you like and must but the fact remains is that we have to survive in the REAL world with minimum pain and humps& bumps to our soul! So, we either change our thinking or we can continue to cry buckets when shit happens!

Lastly, if we women want to be respected, we better start to behave like we can comprehend and overcome challenges in a civil manner.. All these cut and fry KKJ sure spells barbaric or is it just all talk and no action? Both spells disaster as to how we women thinks! To men, talking in such fashion only spells CRAZY! Now you know why most men treat women in such shitty fashion!?

Another thing, you think divorce is a simple thing ah.. pack bag, lari the children away and divorce is like what we see in movies ah!?? GET REAL la… you lari the kids and if he is mean, he makes a police report on you for kidnapping the kids and you had it! Divorce cost a bomb just to ensure you get what you have put in financially to the marriage. Dont even think of wanting to have half of his assets. If yes, you better have tonnes of concrete proof that you have contributed to his success of acquiring his assets, if not, the judge will look at you like you are a money grabbing bitch and give you a good lecture on how to be a human being and award you NOTHING! YUP.. i see this day in day out! Divorce is tedious, it will drain you financially, emotionally and mentally. Not many women come out of a divorce stronger and financially comfortable. Most come out broken in spirit and soul.. and of course financially! THIS IS THE REAL World!

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