Comments on: Kids have feelings too, you know? http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/07/08/kids-have-feelings-too-you-know/ Life, Lies, Sex, Humor, Politics of a Malaysian blogger Mon, 22 Mar 2010 03:50:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: allthingspurple http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/07/08/kids-have-feelings-too-you-know/comment-page-1/#comment-96435 allthingspurple Fri, 18 Jul 2008 17:29:55 +0000 http://www.chanlilian.net/?p=3450#comment-96435 got 2 side of the story lor. if your new baby who has never bonded with grandparents is not favoured over for an older cousin whom the grandparents love a lot, both under care of the same grandmother, the baby turn insecure in later life. Particularly if the grandparents took extreme pain not to incur the elder kid's jealousy, and in doing so, intentionally ignore the younger one, leaving her to the maid's care and repeatedly walked past without acknowledgment even when the younger one called plaintively to the grandparent from the crib. sigh.been there, done that , seen that. broke myheart to hundred pieces. now i quit my job to take my kid back and set up my own practice so that i can take care of my own kid. got 2 side of the story lor. if your new baby who has never bonded with grandparents is not favoured over for an older cousin whom the grandparents love a lot, both under care of the same grandmother, the baby turn insecure in later life. Particularly if the grandparents took extreme pain not to incur the elder kid’s jealousy, and in doing so, intentionally ignore the younger one, leaving her to the maid’s care and repeatedly walked past without acknowledgment even when the younger one called plaintively to the grandparent from the crib. sigh.been there, done that , seen that. broke myheart to hundred pieces. now i quit my job to take my kid back and set up my own practice so that i can take care of my own kid.

]]> By: Lilian http://www.chanlilian.net/2008/07/08/kids-have-feelings-too-you-know/comment-page-1/#comment-96044 Lilian Tue, 08 Jul 2008 07:32:07 +0000 http://www.chanlilian.net/?p=3450#comment-96044 Translator - Tenkiu......Fuyoh, I dem bangga lah. LOL. Got lotsa traffic from Kwong Wah too. Agnes - :) soo ming - Take things one by one lor. All of us moms went through these phases and usually, it is up to the individuals to make the decisions. Tough one, but good luck on finding something workable. kidkiller - Lucky lor. Translator – Tenkiu……Fuyoh, I dem bangga lah. LOL. Got lotsa traffic from Kwong Wah too.

Agnes – :)

soo ming – Take things one by one lor. All of us moms went through these phases and usually, it is up to the individuals to make the decisions. Tough one, but good luck on finding something workable.

kidkiller – Lucky lor.

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