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	<title>Comments on: Do Christians come across as very sad, sombre people to you?</title>
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		<title>By: Lyn May</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lyn May</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 09:06:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Lilian,

I posted this article today and was googling around and coincidentally saw this previous post of yours..

I do not have any intentions to flame all Christians but I have had very very bad experience with most of them. 

I used to be one but I lost my faith because of a handful of Christians as well..

http://ewelmay.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-i-became-atheist.html

Lyn Mays last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://ewelmay.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-i-became-atheist.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How I became an atheist...&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Lilian,</p>
<p>I posted this article today and was googling around and coincidentally saw this previous post of yours..</p>
<p>I do not have any intentions to flame all Christians but I have had very very bad experience with most of them. </p>
<p>I used to be one but I lost my faith because of a handful of Christians as well..</p>
<p><a href="http://ewelmay.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-i-became-atheist.html" rel="nofollow">http://ewelmay.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-i-became-atheist.html</a></p>
<p>Lyn Mays last blog post..<a href="http://ewelmay.blogspot.com/2008/08/how-i-became-atheist.html" rel="nofollow">How I became an atheist&#8230;</a></p>
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		<title>By: gabby</title>
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		<dc:creator>gabby</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 05:13:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Interesting post. I&#039;m a Catholic too. I&#039;m serving in a youth ministry. Sometimes, I too find catholics &#039;boring&#039; and &#039;melancholic&#039;. Could be caused by the &#039;if-you-sin-you&#039;ll-be-thrown-in-hell&#039; teachings of the &#039;older generations&#039;. Therefore, it&#039;s safe to be and look &#039;pious&#039;. However, in my experience (eversince i&#039;ve started spending much time in church), it&#039;s very alive and vibrant. it takes a deeper look, I guess:) Anyway, great blog!Like that you&#039;re being REAL. 
Ow, about the 14 stations, personally, I find it a great, deeper, quiet joy to see the truth and accept the truth of how i am saved. The joy of ressurection is celebrated at the knowledge of those &#039;uncomfortable&#039; sufferings. So today, Christians should be &#039;happy&#039; and joyful because we&#039;re freed from the &#039;pain&#039; of all those stations. 
p/s: I&#039;m surrounded by energetic, (sometimes annoyingly)happy  Catholics all the time, so I guess that&#039;s quite a positive thing.

gabbys last blog post..&lt;a href=&quot;http://gabbybosis.blogspot.com/2008/08/come-walk-on-water.html&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Come Walk on Water&lt;/a&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Interesting post. I&#8217;m a Catholic too. I&#8217;m serving in a youth ministry. Sometimes, I too find catholics &#8216;boring&#8217; and &#8216;melancholic&#8217;. Could be caused by the &#8216;if-you-sin-you&#8217;ll-be-thrown-in-hell&#8217; teachings of the &#8216;older generations&#8217;. Therefore, it&#8217;s safe to be and look &#8216;pious&#8217;. However, in my experience (eversince i&#8217;ve started spending much time in church), it&#8217;s very alive and vibrant. it takes a deeper look, I guess:) Anyway, great blog!Like that you&#8217;re being REAL.<br />
Ow, about the 14 stations, personally, I find it a great, deeper, quiet joy to see the truth and accept the truth of how i am saved. The joy of ressurection is celebrated at the knowledge of those &#8216;uncomfortable&#8217; sufferings. So today, Christians should be &#8216;happy&#8217; and joyful because we&#8217;re freed from the &#8216;pain&#8217; of all those stations.<br />
p/s: I&#8217;m surrounded by energetic, (sometimes annoyingly)happy  Catholics all the time, so I guess that&#8217;s quite a positive thing.</p>
<p>gabbys last blog post..<a href="http://gabbybosis.blogspot.com/2008/08/come-walk-on-water.html" rel="nofollow">Come Walk on Water</a></p>
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