Dangerous kids at school (sharing Rojak’s post)

Something happened to Wingz’s seven year old son which I think should be highlighted for all parents to be aware. His classmate used a pencil to jab the eye of Wingz’s son which caused cornea injury.

Please read the poor boy’s trauma here on Rojak’s blog.

Wingz asked several questions. (brackets are my answers)

1. What kinda 7 yrs old kid that can be so violent?

(Too much exposure to violent shows on TV and no proper parents guidance so most kids are like that lor)

2. Why is there no one from the school even bother to contact us (the parents?) a kid risking losing his eyesight permanently is not a serious matter or no one give a damn? Must wait until after school only the parents should learn about it?

(Biasa ler, one teacher in charge of over 40 students so they cannot totally notice all children. So, it is important to teach our children to be assertive and bugs the teacher if they or their friends have problems.)

3. If his conditions worsen who shall be held responsible?

(Can sue the other parent? Can also sue the school. Soon-pin sue the Government. But in reality, no one lor.)

4. What is the ministry of education complain department tel no and email address? Does anyone here have this infos?

(You can bring the case to the local district Education department. But before you can do anything, you need concrete proof. Like asking the headmaster to get the teacher. Then, lodge the complain. Investigate which boy did it. Then, the headmaster must call the other parent. So that you can give the father a punch and the mother a ‘tiu nia mah, lei tim kau chai geh?’. If the school did not co-operate, threaten them you are going to complain to the Education department, sure they lai liu in their pants.)

5. Who is gonna bear my kid’s medical bill now that we are the victim here?

(Sindiri tanggung cos we are in Malaysia mah. But if the other parent admits, which I doubt, you can ask them and see?)

6. What kinda “proper” disciplinary action shall the school take on the boy who did this to my son?

(Seven years old kid, hard to discipline one. This one sure the parents pampered or neglected until become so violent.)

7. Is the public school safe for children?

(Definitely not. The ratio of teachers to students is too imbalance. But not all schools are so bad. My son had injured himself in school and they have very good Persatuan Bulan Sabit teacher to attend to them. But then, my son’s school was a mission school and the administration is still quite ok.)

So, parents, what do you think you will do if your kid kena injured like this in school and no one tells you about it?

Hope your son’s eye will be ok soon. If you need help to ‘cheong’ the school’s name or school headmaster or school teacher or the boy’s parents, tell us bloggers lah. We help you put up WANTED poster.

16 thoughts on “Dangerous kids at school (sharing Rojak’s post)

  1. OMG!!! If *touchwood* my son’s eye kena poked like that, i’m definitely will go after the parents..! No point ‘hantam’ the boy..after all its the parents who taught or like you said, negelected him!!! But if you go after a kiasu parents, i’m sure they will blamed the poor kid instead of their own son..! Orang punya anak always jahat one mah..only their anak good one!! Also susah..
    Hope nothing serious will happen to the poor boy!!

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  2. fcuk the tv fcuk the violent pc games, i tell u mom, i seriously extremely angry with all those rubbish tv programmes promoting violent+retard kids, neh, expecially those ‘muntah gajah’ series frm taiwan/korea , tiu them all

    mom, thnx for the lesson. means i better have cunning kid or none at all man

  3. 1. Can sue the minor (1st Defendant) and his estate by (thru) his parents (2nd Defendant) for damages costs etc. Your Lawyer may advise this.

    2. Can also sue/ bring in the school (Third Defendant). The school is insured as is the government (that is why- maybe the school offered to pay, the school and the government can be liable to pay more… they know this that is why they are offering to settle to avoid litiigation.

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  4. Cialat!!

    Kids today too damn violent but then again, in a classroom of 40 kids, the teacher doesn’t have time to watch over everyone.

    Hope that Lil Devil will get well soon.

    Sue kao kao the school!!!!

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  5. My heart shrank when I read abt Lil Devil eye incident. The same feeling when my #2 fell, broke a one inch hole on the top of his head http://keatnagnes.blogspot.com/2008_01_01_archive.html

    People around us keep telling us to sue the place/whack the ppl involved/etc etc etc… which are normal reaction. Kept our cool and proceed to get #2 treated. Then talked calmly to parties involved to remedy and plan precaution.

    Later talked to my own kids abt what happenned, and carefully discuss abt not to hate or get back to parties involved. Made them understood and alert in these situation.

    With Wingz’s Lil Devil situation, I will talk to my kids and hear what they said, most important, get my kids to spread the incident to their teachers, friends and caregivers.

    Hope Lil Devil will get well soon.

  6. overreactions lah ppl. u all orang jumped to yr own conclusion even b4 anyone finds out what exactly had happened.
    accident happens all the time, god knows how the pencil kena the eye.
    why sue? sue who? a 7 year old? ppl say u gila ah!
    sue the school…! not practical, if the case is won by the parent, many poor students will lose their book subsidy, may be a couple of teachers will lose their jobs and i guarantee u all pencils will be banned fr the school. so semua kids got affected adversely.
    this is between the 2 kids, their parents and the school’s principal. dun bring any lawyers into this. To the parents of the injured kid, yes…. there are kids involve here but shit happens…. abt time for the school to review their policy in the way they handle scenarios like these.
    based on the photos, seems like a simple cornea abrasion, there were no sign of puncture or rupture. I think he will regain his vision.

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  7. I’m a husband of a teacher in SRK(C) in Klang. The school have merely 2 acre of land but with 1500 students!! 2 blocks of 4 storey building with 1 more coming soon. My main point is the school has 30+ temporary teachers without any formal teaching training. The experience and proper trained teacher only reserve for standard 1, 5 and 6. The rest of the class will be handle by these novice. The school even have to arrange training for temporary teachers to help them in teaching. One teacher will have to become form teacher and still need to handle 6 subjects in one class! BC,Math(BC),Scn(BC),Moral,PJ and Music. The student to teacher ratio is almost 40 to 1. So, every parents wish you and your children good luck.

  8. what the holy shit he is only 7yrs old and i am 10 and i got crash by a automatic gate and i still survive cause of my dad thks dad lucky me if not i will die. by the why that boy or girl will be fine no worry ok people .not ha ha ha ha ha ?????

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