“What if people thinks your wife has turned les….?”

I went to GP just now to exchange a water bottle I bought yesterday. And I saw a woman with crew cut and wowzer….I like! I think I am going to get a really, really short, spiky hair tomorrow. I am writing this down so that I don’t chicken out tomorrow. Peeples, remind me if I do!

So, hubby and I were alone in the car (just so that people know that I am not talking xxx things in front of the kids, ok?) and I was still thinking of that woman with the crew cut.

“Eh, dear…tomorrow, I am going to get myself a crew cut like one woman I saw just now. But hor…what if people think your wife has turned into a lesbian when I go out with my girlfriends? You can tahan the gossip, hor? I go cut, ok? Tomorrow, ok? Not as bald as your sons but short enough. Can? Can?”

And of course, expected from men…”Go lah, saves me money. One year also no need to go hairdresser. Saves shampoo somemore.”

*roll eyes*

I have long wanted to embed this song ‘What about now?’ by Daughtry but they didn’t allow embedding earlier. Now, I can do it. It is something that I have long wanted to do. To be able to reach the hurting, poor, weak, homeless, marginalised, lost….Someone remarked that I have the touch. And I think I agree with him. Video, people, share. That’s my motivation.

Some of you may notice that I tend to sound very cheerful when I talked to these people. (like this Wesak Day video) To those of you who thinks it is the wrong approach, I must explain that the last thing these people needs are self-righteous people who look down on them, put on the saviour facade, talked to them in sympathetic tones and basically do those silly stuffs like the bimbos Miss World did. The next time you meet a beggar, treat him/her like your buddy and chat like you would with a buddy. Don’t ever show sympathy. Give them respect and dignity. Laugh, joke, tease. And remember to treat the person like they used to be. That is regular, normal people who was probably a teacher, a janitor, it doesn’t matter. This is one of the most valuable lesson I learnt from my Mt. Mirian voluntary work, i.e. the person next to you is a person they used to be, even if they are dying and no responding anymore.

Booyeah! Shortest possible hair. If my female hairdresser refused to cut that short, I go mamak barber.

21 thoughts on ““What if people thinks your wife has turned les….?”

  1. Ok quickly go cut and show us your new look! Can’t wait liao!!

    Take photo with your new handbag and clothes too. Wah, a real makeover ah?
    I jealous lo!

  2. Domino – ya, inch by inch, I inch closer to it hahaha

    Momo – I ‘thau hong’ one you don’t know meh? My sons all baldy like that, so I also want to follow.

  3. momo – Somemore, I so ‘full and ang geh’ so people won’t mistaken me for having undergone chemo. I so pinkish and chubby mah…

  4. Real or not!!!!

    You go crew cut, I go botak!!! Niamah!!! Crew cut = <1cm

    Niamah!! Hair so short, very easy kena the Hainanese wind leh! LOL! Kepala Angin!!

  5. Terence – Tiu, don’t challenge me harrr….You come Penang, we sit side by side and we tell the mamak. You go for ‘cukur pisau’ and I go for 0 with the electric shaver. Niamah, think I sked meh? But wait…that’s not the end of the deal lah….*private deals made privately*

  6. Yee Hou – Lagi dahsyat, later these angmohs sue me, my life also not enough to pay them. Youtube very strict nowadays.

  7. Ok… Have you done it yet?

    With the super hot weather we are having, it makes sense-la.

    Anyway, when you are done, can supply with photographic/videographic evidence? 😛

    Angie Tan´s last blog post..Mother’s Day

  8. Cur oledi or not? Pictuer, picture , picture…..

    Good to know there are people like you out there that doing so much to help……..maybe you should try your hand being a council member of Penang, think you can do a lot more. My thinking lah only….coz I also have a friend(like you married with children) and children now bigger, quit her comfy and high paying job and became a council member of Shah Alam, everday running here and there doing what she really love, serving and helping the people with State support……

    Anyway, picture, picture, picture, picture….front, back, side, side and top okay!

  9. Terence – Abuden?

    toolan – Aiyor, I chickening out already lah….

    angie – LOL, I don’t marry a barber so I cannot have a hair cut between the hours of 11 pm last night and this morning lah.

  10. Momo – yorrrr…you make me so tension betul. I have duty in church this Saturday, reading Bible, so I chickened out a bit cos later, the priest throw me down the altar (stage like dat). He will say, “HOI, this is Catholic church lah, you salah tokong lah!” Hahahaha

  11. The Bible says, woman should cover her head in place of worship, else let her have her hair shaved. So tell priest now no need head covering oredi lor….:-P

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