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Don’t you have these perceptions too?

A) Fat woman/ok looking man = that woman must be rich

Today, at the hawker’s centre, I saw this fat woman who has this plain Jane’s look. Her hair, her clothes and just about everything is so plain. When I say fat, you can imagine really fat because I am already fat jor, so if I say fat, means really fat, ok?

Next to her, was an ok-looking man. Not fat, wears quite ok, looks not bad.

Their food came. She pays. They have a bucket of Tiger beer on the table.

The guy sat very close to her, their knees touching one another. *What!!! My food was slow so I was just observing the scenes mah*

My perception is – She must be rich and the guy is after her money. Or he is trying to sell her a fat insurance policy. Or she is his boss’s wife. Nothing else.

B) Asian women (especially Filipinos), busty, perky butts, sexy with gwailoes = it is all about sex

The moment I see such pairs, which by the way are many in a touristy island like Penang and where I am now staying, the images of Asian p o r n (must not spell it or else Google take away my ads) flashed in my mind. The gwailoes are only after one thing – sex. The women are only after one thing – money.

C) Chinese women with gwailoes = She is an SPG

People are going to whack me for this. But when a Chinese woman goes after a gwailo, it simply means gwailoes are better than Chinese. If I am a Chinese man, I will feel very insulted.

D) Indian women with gwailoes = Gwailoes love their exotic looks

I worked in a German company before and German men just love Indian women. They never lift an eye for Chinese, only Indian. They find Indian women more feminine and more exotic. And I tend to agree.

E) All bloggers are weirdoes who need a life. They talked too much and the world is better without them around.

BONUS : If any woman who is above 40 yrs old and still single/no boyfriend, then, she must be damn fussy and no man can stand her. She must be also damn errrm…ok, I don’t want to say further, you know my cucumber story already.

Now I know everyone agrees with this statement.

So, what say you to A-D. Misconceptions or there is some truth in them?

P/S : Don’t give me any prude comments like, we are all created the same and we are all beautiful and you should not judge yadda yadda yadda….Take your frigid self elsewhere lah. It is Friday and time to let your thoughts run free, ok?




12 Responses to “Don’t you have these perceptions too?”

  1. still got still got… young woman + old man. She is waiting for old man to die and take all his money. Old man is just too horny, dying liao still not sked wanna have sex.

  2. Wei! One of my ex-GF pays for all my meals, buys me stuffs, wipes sweat on forehead and even picks me up in a sports car leh. I was way richer than her. So how?

  3. What is SPG?

  4. Lilian,
    How about an Indian man with a Chinese woman?

  5. Nice to see your perception of others

    But how about what others see in you?

    Judge not lest thou be judged

  6. hahaha… so very true… it is not judging. It is just a general first perception of people have. One look the first thought would be… yalar, the fella must be blardy rich la… then the moral part set in… nolar, maybe there is really this thing called LOVE (with one palm pressing hard against the heart) lols…

  7. When I met my BF i was at my heaviest (go to FB and u may jz see my transformation pic … before and after) and I always had this thing that everyone look at me “one” kind. They must be thinking that I’m so fat, nothing femine or sexy about me, how come this guy with me? Come on la, even I myself would look at other that way… BUT! I’m not some rich bitch or boss’ wife or lonely rich old spinster! I pity my BF… surely he must have felt those “one”kind looks! Doesn’t mean if you see me paying for the TIGER, means he is my “toy boy”… you just happen to see her paying for the Tiger, that one time… maybe he pays for the other expensive stuff?
    AND…maybe some guys got this fetish desire for Fat woman…. nowadays women so skinny like bamboo… how excited can it be to make luv with a bamboo??
    You will be very surprise… nowadays, you see alot of fat girl n ok guy, combination around. I have a friend fatter than me… married to a very good looking gym instructor…. wa, go figure la!
    By the way, you only saw this Fat girl/ok guy today, right? Haiya abit worry if you saw me with my BF and then you think that way of me. LOL
    Hahahaaa… actually you did see me at Kheng Pin Coffeshop sometime last yr (and there was a fire near Bata that afternoon, you were waiting for your eldest boy)… and we ordered TIGER… tell you about it someother time.

  8. Aiyak!!!! Lost souls hovering around for their daily dose of wanking to their self-perceived god!

  9. Joann – LOL, yesterday Wong Chun Wai tweet ‘Fat women are better in bed’ or something like that. There is hope! Let’s eat!

    Redbabe – Yalor, it is something that creeps into our mind, whether we dare to admit or not hor?

    terence – My conclusion is your a gigolo?

    little polaris – It is trendy ler, to have sugar daddies. Go find one lah, better than working so hard to make a living.

  10. I have many examples:
    1) chinese woman with gwailow – dad not speaking to her nowadays but the kids are darn cute!
    2) chinese girl with indian guy infatuation – she dates only indian guys. that’s just how she likes her men. tall, dark and hamsem
    3) fat girl with younger scandinavian guy – their love is boundless and really transcends all physical barriers. he loves her for who she is inside. both are equally successful.
    4) chinese girl with chinese guy – the guys is a con man who conned the girl and now living off her salary. go figure.

    So, many happy examples of different culture/skin color couples. The ones who married the same race are the ones losing out, i tell you.
    Have a good day!

  11. wei…. ask your hubby, before and after transformation…. is it better now….? Is he enjoying it alot now? LOL Hahahaaa.

  12. ahaha… I believe I can get a good husband, dun have to cheat from dying old man eh.