Comments on: The calm before the SPM storm http://www.chanlilian.net/2009/11/18/the-calm-before-the-spm-storm/ Life, Lies, Sex, Humor, Politics of a Malaysian blogger Mon, 06 Feb 2012 12:27:21 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Redbabe http://www.chanlilian.net/2009/11/18/the-calm-before-the-spm-storm/comment-page-1/#comment-109986 Redbabe Sat, 21 Nov 2009 02:56:44 +0000 http://www.chanlilian.net/?p=7017#comment-109986 yup...i think that's cool. That should be the way. Many parents these days influence their children's judgement with what they themselves (the parents) wanted to do but never did or what 'they' think is good career path. Then down the road 5, 6 years later, the children, now already working in the field chosen for them (by the parents), realised they dont really like what they doing. Only then they start planning to do what their heart wanted to. It's total waste of time and money and brain cell. yup…i think that’s cool. That should be the way. Many parents these days influence their children’s judgement with what they themselves (the parents) wanted to do but never did or what ‘they’ think is good career path.

Then down the road 5, 6 years later, the children, now already working in the field chosen for them (by the parents), realised they dont really like what they doing. Only then they start planning to do what their heart wanted to. It’s total waste of time and money and brain cell.

]]> By: Robb http://www.chanlilian.net/2009/11/18/the-calm-before-the-spm-storm/comment-page-1/#comment-109978 Robb Fri, 20 Nov 2009 05:32:41 +0000 http://www.chanlilian.net/?p=7017#comment-109978 Yeap, you're right. Children should be given the right to choose to do things they want to do and not forced/prodded all the time. :) Yeap, you’re right. Children should be given the right to choose to do things they want to do and not forced/prodded all the time. :)

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