Peeps, if you know the Malaysian divorce law for Chinese, help me please!
Ah Lian and Ah Beng have two small kids.Â Ah Lian works in a low paying job.Â Ah Beng shakes balls.Â Ah Lian is only 21 yrs old. One of their kid needs lifelong medical attention.
This problem can’t be solved by them.Â The parents asked for opinions on what to do with their daughter.
She wants the kids.Â But she is not taking care of them right now, only her mother.
It was suggested to them, give theÂ legal guardian to the father (Ah Beng’s parents will have to take the shit).Â But Ah Beng not keen.
Legally, how to file for divorce if both parties consent? Â See aÂ lawyer and work out who is taking care of the kids. Can the mother NOT take the legal guardian (as in not having financial responsibilitie)Â but demand for rights to take care of the kids?
If I look at this matter without any emotions in consideration, I would say let Ah Lian pushed theÂ kids to Ah Beng.Â She won’t have any strings tied in future.Â She is only 21 yrs old with not much education.Â Somehow, the kids will be taken care by Ah Lian’s mother because Ah Beng’s mother is not grandma stuffs.Â So, she won’t lost her kids ‘cos they stay not far away.
However, atm is afraid if both parents refused, the court terus send the kids to welfare home.Â As we do not know how family courts work, we aren’t really good in deciding.Â But anÂ answer is very much anticipated from us.Â Dear Thelma, help please?